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Hey ladies!

So FET Transfer day is finally here. It feels like a life time ago since my miscarriage in January.

My friends ask me how I'm feeling about today... and I just don't know, I don't really feel anything. I'm not excited or scared, nervous or calm. Maybe it's my coping mechanism for everything I've been through & may go through again. It's quite a strange feeling really. One thing I do know is that I'm dreading the waiting & waiting!

This is my first & only Frozen cycle as we only had 2x extra that got to blastocyst stage. So fingers crossed that my pumpkins (collected on Halloween! 😁) thaw successfully & then we've at least started on a positive!

I'm wishing all of you lots of love & luck wherever you may be in your journey.

Becky xxx

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Good luck lovely. I know exactly how you feel. Miscarried in February and in about a month will be getting transfer. I feel a numbness I think to but agree coping mechanism. I’m scared to feel anything especially hope. It’s so difficult and no right or wrong way. I have everything crossed for you. Good luck xxx

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Thankyou very much & good luck to you too. Xx

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7AVA

Good luck, hope it all goes well xx

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emu2016

Good luck!!!!!! x

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Becky179 in reply toemu2016

Thank you xxx

Oh lovely this journey is so difficult, even more so with a miscarriage 💔 I had a chemical pregnancy last year and it’s devastating you never forget😪 so sorry for your loss .

Anyway it’s slways good to have a plan to follow 😊 and I’ve got everything crossed that this is your time. “Taking the silver lining from a dark cloud it is positive you have conceived” that’s what our consultant said yesterday and I thought it was beautiful 💗 xoxo

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That is lovely! Thankyou very much. Xx

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Dunla

Good luck Becky, hoping today goes really well for you. Best wishes also for a positive outcome xx

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Thank you xxx

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Thankyou everyone! They both survived thawing! So all good for 12pm 🤞🎃🎃🤞. Xx

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Oh that’s great news! Such a relief for you. Good luck for 12pm and the two weeks ahead x

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Cinderella5

Hey Becky, just wanted to wish you loads of luck! Its hard waiting for the next time to come around but you've done it!xx

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Becky179 in reply toCinderella5

Thanks hon. And the waiting will begin again! Xx

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Cinderella5 in reply toBecky179

God I know, waiting, waiting and more waiting....urrghhhh!! ha ha ha xx

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Wishfully

🤗🤗🤗 it has started! Wishing you & your pumpkins every bit of luck! Xx

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