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So I did 2 tests this morning, I was very good didnt test early, but both negative, Feel empty and low. I really thought I was pregnant after how many signs I have been having even still having (TMI - brown stringy discharge, nausea, unable to eat big meals and weight loss). Have got to call the hospital later and tell them, not sure if i'm going to be able to do that conversation. My mum for some reason still believes that I might be..... Is it at all possible that the negative result was wrong?.... Also are you more fertile after failed IVF?? Are we more likely to fall pregnant naturally??? ....

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AllWeNeedIsluv

I'm so sorry lovely, big hugs, I don't know either answers to your questions I'm not an ivf lady but lots will know. Hope there still is some hope for you big hugs 💗🤗😘

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Kdixxy169 in reply toAllWeNeedIsluv

Thank you x

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Cinderella5

What day did the clinic ask you to test on? Some clinics say day 10 and other day 14. I think realistically if you have tested on day 14 then its likely to be a true result. Unfortunately the progesterone that we have to use mimicks pregnancy symptoms so to go by symptoms is really hard. Sending hugs.xx

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Kdixxy169

Tested on dad 14, the hospital have just asked me to come in for a blood test to make sure it is negative , not holding out much hope for any other result. Thanks x

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Cinderella5 in reply toKdixxy169

Glad to hear they are being thorough, at least it will settle your mind! Take care xx

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Smang

I’m sorry Kdixxy169 bfn’s are horrible and the cruelty of the progesterone mimicking pregnancy symptoms doesn’t help. Take time and take care of yourself.

I can’t offer advice on your questions, but think your clinic can offer more information xx

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Kdixxy169

Blood test has confirmed negative pregnancy test. Now to pick myself up and dust myself off and wait for the next try x

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Anna00

Sorry Kdixxy169, I feel you. bfns are so cruel. xx

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Dunla

So very sorry to hear you tested negative. Take good care of yourself.Sending you love and hugs xx

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Amanda86

So sorry 🙁 xxx

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Violet5451

Really sorry to hear about the bfn. The world is so cruel. Remember. You are a strong warrior and you will get through this and onto the next stage whatever that might be. Be kind to yourself and sending lots of love xxx

I know two people who fell pregnant very quickly after ivf (one her first baby, one it was secondary infertility), and both say they felt that the ivf kickstarted something x

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Kdixxy169 in reply toLizzielizzielizzie

Oooh thank you this gives me optimism xx

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Lou7744

Sorry to read this ☹️ Sending you big hugs 💕 xx

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TTCs

Im so sorry to hear of u BFN, it's so tough!!! Be kind to yourself ❤ xzz

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Tugsgirl

Bfns are really hard. Sorry 😞 xx

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Dreamingofbaby

So sorry for your result. This is such a hard and cruel journey at times a. Take good care of you. Hopefully it will happen for u soon ☺️x

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