I started to consider some prospects.

[gabby4real]

Having in mind that regular price for surrogacy is like 100k-120k. I think I can find some cheaper variants abroad. But of course, I need to consult a physician first. To understand what I can expect for: can I use my eggs or not, etc…

I saw some of u recommend me to contact clinics directly. So what countries is good to choose?

[lalalend]

Hi Gabriel! You may find clinics, which may help you somewhere in East Europe or India. It may be cheaper up to 2 times i guess. Good luck!

[nduku in reply to lalalend]

Cambodia and India are both closed for surrogacy now. When my cousin needed surrogacy, she wanted to go to India. It was popular 10 years ago. Since that they’ve changed the rules. Now only Indian citizens can undergo cheap surrogacy there. The other popular direction such as Vietnam, Laos, Nigeria and Kenya are completely unregulated. So bare it in mind.

[winkwink]

We have been trying more than 2 years. I was diagnosed in the UK, but eventually I became a mother in Ukraine. We decided to go there due to reasonable price. It was a thorny way and I couldn’t handle it alone. My husband helped me a lot in those days. Plus, we found a nice clinic with an agency, which took care of all staff in Ukraine.

[heyhail]

Dear Gabriel…Idk, you have a specific case. Some countries would love to see you. Some would love to, but legislation will not allow treatment because of the legislation. And yes it may be very expensive. The real option for you is to use friend or family member as the surrogate mother. I read your story and understand that’s quite difficult. Try to discuss this option with your partner.

[gabby4real in reply to heyhail]

Thanks a lot, heyhail. I was thinking about this option and discussed it with my husband. Unfortunately, no one we know will be ready for that. Now it seems to me that it’s easy to find a surrogate in the clinic, when I finally define.

[nduku]

Gabriel, keep us posted when you will find the one. The community will try to advice you further. I'll keep my fingers crossed. Bless you!!