I can’t understand human ignorance. A week and still no answer.
I am not blaming everyone, I am just frustrated...
I didn’t expect a lot. Just a bit of inspiration and support.
I saw here posts with 40 replies. I didn’t expect for that, of course.
Sorry for that, I’ll try to find the answers on the other platform…
Hun don’t leave - sometimes people don’t see the posts or know what to advise. Everyone is fighting such an individual battle- no ones journey is the same but we do understand the pain infertility brings.
Ultimately you have to do what feels right for you- no one will that but you.
If you are really unsure perhaps some counselling may help? I know women on here have had counselling prior to considering egg donors.
One thing I’ve learnt being on here is families come in all shapes and sizes.
I wish you well on your journey and I do hope you stay on here. The ladies on here are supportive and i find it comforting to know I’m not alone. Friends and family ( no matter how hard they try) don’t get it as much as we do. Getting the balance between work and family can be tough. You must do things for you and pursue your dreams- life is too short to have regrets xoxo 😘
Don't leave!! its so hard to not feel frustrated and angry at the world when you are going through this awful time , but remember we are all in the same boat!! I hope you're ok today, take the good days and hold onto them because I know the bad days can feel impossible to get through at time, stay strong!!
Hi gabby4real. Just read your post. I was so sorry to read that you didn't find the support you were looking for. We come in all shapes, sizes, colour and religion, but most of us just want to be parents - however this is to be achieved. From a medical point of view, I hope that you were able to have some implications counselling before going ahead with your "new you". You are to be admired for going through so much to achieve the happiness you deserve. Just hoping that your dream of becoming a parent through surrogacy comes to fruition. There is a charity called the British Infertility Counselling Association, who are specially trained to speak about all issues surrounding fertility problems. It isn't free, but you might like to contact them at bica.net and see how they can help you. Nothing more to say really, but I do wish you success and happiness with whichever route you go down to become a parent. Diane
Your post is a very unique one. I can imagine not many of us can relate. But I know that your goal is ultimately surrocacy and some lady's on here may be able to direct you, I know one in particular but she doesn't come on often. But I'll tag her in this and your previous post, sometimes people don't reply to posts as they can't offer advice or no nothing about what you've posted or maybe have not seen your post. To be annoyed with the forum is not the way forward it's an amazing platform for support. Maybe head your post with a word of the ultimate goal. Surrogacy.
Ultimately it is up to you what you do but I'll still tag the lady in it for you she maybe able to help xx for some reason it won't let me tag if you search she's called Alessia x
Don’t go! People don’t always post especially if their situation is not the same. I felt the same as you before that I wasn’t getting support but everyone said to stay and I’m glad I did. I hope you feel more supported now and that you achieve your dreams xx
I feel a little awkward now. Thanks all for your kind responses. I didn't mean to offend the community anyhow. Sorry for that.
I am nervous now. I will tell you more, when I will be ready for that.
Thanks for your support!
aww bless...((((Hugs)))) I get the daily updates. Some days I just look through that, some days I just not in that frame of mind, and some days when I'm more able or have the time to properly "think" with my IVF / baby head on I can spend time (like now) properly reading and replying if and when I can.
It is a tough process - especially given the private nature of what we're going through. I hate the fact that talk and chat with people at work or friends is so difficult but with forums like this, or fertility friends network groups it is nice to be able to just talk when we can and get what support we can - even if it's just to check in or vent!.
(((Hugs again)))
Snowy x
Don’t go! I never seen any of your post before and normally I reply even if I don’t know the answer I just wish for luck and I’m sure lots of people in here are like me. So please don’t think you ignored. we are like a family in here that we never met. I’m so sorry if we gave you that feeling. Ivf journey is very hard for every one you’re not alon,I got my first failed cycle 2 days ago. We all here to support each other. Hope your ok xxx
As expected 3rd round has resulted in a bfn now to say bye to this forum
8 years ! Good news :)
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