So finally I did it! Couldn’t sleep at all last night. I didn’t feel anything during the transfer as I was under sedation, had a bit of cramps after that and I still have it, more like mild period pain have no bleeding so don’t know is it good or bad as most of the girls in here said they had a mild bleeding or I might have it late? They gave me 1paracetamol instead of 2 maybe that’s why I still feel the pain. I’m ok overall at home in my bed right now. I should have a rest all day today and from tomorrow I can carry on my normal life.
Is it normal to be emotional and nervous? Think I’m very bad at the moment so scared of losing my embryo as my others aren’t at the good quality for freezing at the moment, they will let me know by tomorrow that they going to freez them or not, so fingers crossed🤞🏻.
Any advise what’s better to do or anything that help me survive this never ending 2weeks?I’m so panic😢 if I get more pain it means I’m losing it?Xxx
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I think rest of you can for the first few days then try to get on with normal life- you can’t put it off after all! I went back to work after 2 days but was a nervousness wreck the whole 2 wks. Although I’m afraid if is positive the 2.5 week wait after that for the scan is even worse!! I did the usual- googled every symptom, paranoid every time I went to the loo there would be blood, generally drove myself mad! Good luck with your 2ww and if you’re feeling crazy remember it’s just normal! 😉
Thanks Chloegreenkiwi! To be honest wish I could jump to next 2weeks! It’s horrible I even scared go for a wee I know it’s sounds funny but that’s me right now don’t know what to do with number 2!🤦🏻♀️ I’ll back to work next week hopefully I feel better by then. Xx
Hi Anna00. Just try and keep busy, but have a little rest when you can. All went well for you, which is good to hear. You will get a bit of slight cramping from being pushed about. keeping everything crossed for you. Diane
Thanks DianeArnold. So not everyone get bleeding or you think I might get it later? So scared go to toilet think it’s the worst part. Is that right if I cough or laugh it might fall out? Xx
Hi Anna00. No, not everyone, but it can happen as the placenta starts to form. Try not to worry! I think I need to put you into hibernation for a while, bless you! Diane
We are in the same boat. Just try to find activities to keep you busy. I’ve spent the last three days writing and decided to download a few movies that I haven’t had time to watch. Wishing you the very best of luck xx
Mine is on board as well and like you we didn’t have any to freeze. But we have a good blastocyst on board and if it’s meant to be it will be. Chin up... we are further along than we have ever been xxx plus I reckon our blastos that made it are just competitive! Lol! Xxx
Hi lovely! I’m so scared if this on fall out I ended up with no embryos,I had 9 mature eggs 6 fertilised and ended up with one,hope the 2 other can make it by tomorrow. I know I should think more positive, fingers crossed for both of us 🤞🏻Xxxx
You have a fighter on board I’m sure. Ours haven’t made it either and they won’t wait until tomorrow but we have strong little ones with us. It won’t fall out! I just read (cos I’m scared to poo) that it’s like a grain of salt in peanut butter xxxx
Yeah your right lovely! I don’t think our can make it till tomorrow, so we have our little fighter too! Omg I’m so scared to poo🤦🏻♀️ Fingers crossed for both of us🤞🏻🙏🏻😘xx
Good luck! I have my frozen transfer tomorrow! Best advice I can give is to stay away from dr Google it will do you no good, and don't analyse everything you will drive yourself mad. Try and keep your mind busy. I didn't have any bleeding on my first transfer so please don't read too much into it. Yes it's normal to be emotional and nervous! Fingers crossed for BFP xxxx
Thanks Panders! Yeah I should stay away from google as I’m on it every minute with new search🤦🏻♀️ So some people don’t have bleeding at all and get BFP! I feel better now. Good luck for tomorrow xxxxx
Well done Anna. Hope today the spotting and cramping will have eased for you. Feeling anxious and emotional are completely normal. I used Zita West’s guided meditation during 2ww to help me relax a bit. You can download it to your phone from iTunes. Hoping your other little embryos will continue to grow and be ready for freezing. Wishing you all the luck in the world now for a BFP xxx
Thanks Dunla! I’m a bit better but still so scared of walking and moving I know it’s bad😔 they will call me today so fingers crossed🤞🏻 Thanks for your lovely wishes good luck to you too xxx
You can go about your normal daily life just excercise caution and common sense and you’ll be fine. I did everything text book on my first cycle and it was still a bfn. Hopefully that won’t be the case for you. Good luck for your otd xx
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