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It’s all over

Hi all,

So it’s all over for us (for now).

We had one embryo transferred a few weeks ago and were due to do our pregnancy test this morning, however I started my period yesterday and it was a full bleed and very red (sorry tmi) so we decided to do the pregnancy test last night, it was a BFN! Really really shattered and heartbroken.

My DH has been my rock through our journey and has been amazing.

Trying to still keep positive and embrace 2018 and believe it will be the year for us. We had two embryos, one was transferred two weeks ago on day 3 and one wasn’t quite there on day 3 but by day 5 was a good quality embryo so we decided to freeze it as i already had one embryo transferred.

It’s been a very emotional journey for us with so many highs and lows. We have unexplained infertility so not sure why we can conceive naturally. I have low amh levels and am 36 so time is slowly ticking away. I am learning to trust the journey if if I don’t understand it.

Wishing baby dust to you all!! Happy Christmas ladies. 🎄

Even miracles take a little time.... ❤️💙💚

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so sorry to hear this x

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Sorry to hear that! Sending hugs, its horrible getting a BFN.xx

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I'm so sorry to read this. Reading your post made me so emotional, but let's hope and trust 2018 brings us hope and joy.

Yes even miracles take time, but we will all get our desires by the grace of God.

Do take care of yourself.

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Sorry to read this, BFN’s are so cruel x

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so sorry xx

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I am very sorry to hear your news - I too got BFN this morning which is very hard - it was our one and only frozen embryo too. I feel your sadness as much as I feel mine.

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I’m so sorry for you all x

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So sorry to hear your news. Sending you a big hug xx

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So sorry to hear your news and it definitely not nice at this time of year. You have done so well to this this far and your frostie waiting for you. Give yourself time and keep believing x x

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So sorry for your bfn honey. We got our bfn a week ago too 😢

I really hope you’re able to take the time to heal and rest up and recuperate from it all.

Just know you did all that you could for your little embie, and maybe it was just getting everything ready for your little frostie to come along in a few months time 🤗

Take care of yourself honey xxx

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So sorry to hear this sending hugs and bags of wishes that next year is your year xx

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I’m so very sorry to hear this. Seeing that blood is such an indescribable heart wrenching feeling.

Hoping 2018 brings peace and happiness to you and your husband.

As you say, even miracles take a little time.

I’m not giving up hope just yet either xx

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Wishing everyone on the ivf/icsi/Isi journey the very best of luck in 2018. I have never posted before but often read posts to give me hope and keep me sane. Thank you to everyone brave enough to write about their success and failure. Merry Christmas and good luck for 2018

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