I hope you are all doing ok on this rainy Friday morning. I hope people who are testing this morning get their BFP, that the ladies who are having EC today all go swimmingly and what ever Point anyone is at that you are remaining stong and positive.
I’ve been watching a lot of your stories and I have to hand it to you all and say your all amazing!!
Some may remember me some may not but unfortunately me and my fiancée have split up.
Back in Feb I had my failed ivf and then I found out in June the arsehole was having an affair with some one I work with!! I tried to move forward because he was blaming the ivf and how we were growing apart and we had lost the spark (which can happen with ivf) so I gave him a second chance. But I got my head in gear and when I came into some money a few months ago he changed and I just suddenly thought no enough is enough ..... As the only way we would conceive would be icsi which as a lot of you know is not bloody cheap.
All of it came to ahead and I thought I can’t do this anymore I can’t trust him and for me when trust is broken then as far as I’m concerned so is the relationship! 6 yrs down the drain.
I need someone who respects me and loves me and certainly doesn’t go elsewhere when the times get tough!! I’m all good now tho I’m ready for my new start in 2018!!
So I just wanted to wish all you beautiful ladies the very best of luck getting your BFP!! And don’t ever give up no matter how hard it gets, talk to your partners and make sure they don’t feel left out because I think that’s where I went wrong I made it a lot about me lol. I’m sorry for the long winded post today. Sending massive love and hugs to you all and thank you to all of you who kept me sane through out my ivf 💖 xxxx
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Sounds like your very strong and have had some tough decisions to make, but good for you doing what’s best for you. Wishing you every happiness and hoping you meet someone more deserving who makes you truly happy xxx
you are such a strong fabulous lady and I wish you all the live and happiness in the world and we are all always here if you return but I hope in some ways you don't and you find love and a baby naturally. ..much love xxx
Aww your comment just brought a tear to my eye, coming off this sight is the end of it all really, I had to deal with the ivf clinic which is just the finalisation of it all. I hope you are doing ok hunni and I wish you all the live and happiness right back at you xxxx
You may have done things wrong but a man cheating = an arse in my book so well done for moving on from him. I have every confidence that there is love, happiness and a family in your future xxx
Thank you so much lovely, I definitely think the same, just took me a little longer to actually actbin it haha. But I just hope my happy ever after is out there xxx
My brother also didn’t meet his partner till he was 33 and she’s also brilliant. I think it’s easier to make good choices in your thirties and once you meet the right person it all moves much quicker than it did in your 20s because you just know yourselves so much better. You will be fine, I just know it xx
To be clear - you probably haven’t done things wrong, even though you might feel like you have... he definitely did things wrong. Read my message back and thought it sounded like I was saying you’d done things wrong rather than just reflecting back your own phrase xx
Aww Emma I hope you find all the happiness you deserve & more!! On to bigger and better things in the new year & no more arseholes. I want to wish you all the luck in the world for the future & I hope all your dreams come true. Xx
Oh goodness me you are all so kind and will really miss you all, thank you for you kind comment, I really hope I get my family that I’ve dreamed of. But I wish you also all the best too xxx
Thank you, I remember speaking with you privately 7 months ago now & now I have less than 3 weeks till my due date! Believe in yourself & I am positive you will get all you wish for and more xx
Yes I remember chatting privately with you too and can’t thank you enough as I’ve said above for helping me through my ivf and keeping me sane lol.
I can’t believe you only have 3 wks to go!! I hope your laubour isn’t too stressful for you Hun. And I wish you and your family an amazing future building memories xxx
Welldone for being brave and walking away! He doesn't deserve you, and something better is waiting around the corner for you ! Merry Christmas and HAPPY NEW YEAR!! Bring on 2018 haha x x x
You've been incredibly brave making the decision that enough is enough and ditching the cheating loser! It might feel hard starting out again on your own in the dating scene but hopefully you will find your special one and will have no need to ever be back on the site! Wishing you all the luck in the world to find your love and family that you so deserve!xx
Dear u r fabulous strong woman . We are all gonna miss u . But I wish you find d love and respect u deserve in ur life and maybe never have to come back here like a friend of mine recently had . Happy 2018
Thank you hunni, and you too, I’m so sorry to hear your recent news, and I have everything crossed that you will get your happy ever after and the beautiful baby you deserve 😘😘 xxx
Oh Hun it’s so awful, but I hope 2018 is your year 😘 stay strong tho lovely, and let your self grieve. If you want to exchange numbers I’m more than happy to xxx
It may be a goodbye from here my darling but we will never say goodbye and will be lifelong friends and that is only because of this forum! Love you millions and I’ll always be here for you through whatever you may need to go through ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ My superstar bestie xxxxxxxxxxxxxx
If only there was a love button for this!! That’s one think I need to thank this sight for and that’s finding a best mate in you, we’ve been in holiday together we’ve shared failed ivfs together and most of all you’ve helped me through my break up!! Love you millions and we will get our happy ever afters xxxxxxxxx
I didn't want to read and run, I have only recently joined so didn't follow your story but I just wanted to say that you sound like such a strong and brave lady! You have had some tough choices to make but it sounds like for the best. GL for the future and finding someone who loves and respects you the way you deserve to be! xxx
That’s really kind of you to take the time to comment. It’s certainly not been easy but this forum is absolutely amazing and if you have just joined then all I can say is you arenin good hands with everyone in here. I wish you all the best for your journey my love xxx
Aww bless you thank you Hun, it’s definantly been hard but I’ve had great support. I hope you are getting through your pregnancy ok as I know you’ve had a hard time of it lately, but just think with everything you have been through, you will get to meet the little cutie soon 😘 take care lovely xxxx
Sorry to hear you’re fiancé was a twit! You are better off without as you’ve recognised. Wishing you all the very next for 2018 with lots of love and happiness xxx
Blimey o Riley!! 20 weeks already, that’s flying by!! And you don’t have to thank me, I was happy I could help as it’s all so daunting. Have you found out what your having? Xxx
Sending you massive hugs - so sorry you've had to go through that, but you sound like an amazing, strong and caring person, and you need someone who will have your back, no matter what! Hope 2018 brings you much love xxxxxx
I am a true believer that everything happens to get you to the place that you are meant to be. Clearly your fiancée was not the one for you and you are incredibly brave to have made that decision and put yourself first.
Good luck in 2018 and in finding Mr Right when you are ready...until then keep enjoying the champagne 😊 xx
Aww thank you very much lovely. Yes I’ve certainly put myself first which I never normally do and it definitely feels good lol. I hope your journey is going ok xxx
Oh dear what a horrible thing to go through especially while TTC.what a jerk.you sound like you are coping ok.you are so brave and thats so inspiring. All the best for the next year and also with starting a familiar. I hope you meet someone amazing and supportive through everything. Thank you for sharing your ttc story with us. Take care of yourself
Hope that 2018 is going to be your year to meet someone who deserves you! He clearly didn’t.... been cheated on is the worst!!!! You will come out of this stronger. Wishing you lots of happiness xxx
Well, if this is a picture of you then you won’t be long single, I’m sure someone will snap you up! But be careful to hold out for a good’un - I’m sure you will after this experience. I’m sorry it didn’t work out for you but I wish you every happiness in the future. Ps you are still very young! I remember thinking it was getting too late at 31 and I was old but now I look back and think how young I was! Do all the things you want to do now while you’re single and have fun! Xxxx
God I wish there was a “love” button lol thank you for your kind words, yes this is a pic of me, and I’ve had some attention but I’m not rushing into anything as I just want me time to gain my confidence bk. but I’m getting there, I’d like to wish you all the best in your journey xxx
What a strong woman you are! Wishing you an abundance of happiness for 2018 & here's to finding a partner that will show you the respect you deserve! Lots of love xx
It happened some time when you are not too sure about your life, what actually you want, Try to be normal My brother also didn't meet his partner till he was 39 and she’s also brilliant and she loves him alot. I think it’s easier to make good choices in your thirties and once you meet the right person. So just focus what you want.
Hello ladies.hope you doing great work.and soon have good news just like me.I got a BFP (big fat positive (pregnancy test)) at 10 days before my missed period I would be very concerned about it being a tubal (ectopic) pregnancy.I use First Response Early Result with first-morning urine starting at 7 DPO (days past ovulation).
Hello emma-jane-30!!! You are looking upset. I am feeling bad for you. It’s not an easy job that you have done. Most important at what age or what level of your mentality you have seen too many hardships and troubles. Life had taught you an amazing lesson and you got experience. You are too much strong and brave and hope for the best for you in the future. May your 2018 brings happiness and lot of joys for you. My prayers and best wishes are with you. At any turn of your life never get disappointed and hopeless. Just remember then Hopelessness is a sin and now you are brave enough to cope with it. Thank you for sharing your story with us. It’s really a good deed to guide others through your experience by narrating your story.
I know it's late but yeah! Wish you all the best for this year! Stay blessed! I hope 2k18 brings what you want. Sending you a lot of love! Your post was pretty strong!
Good luck wish you all. The best . Stay strong happiness is out there I didn’t meet my husband until I was 26weve been together 5 years u seem a wonderful girl we’ve been trying for 2 and a half years our injections for ivf start next week
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You are all amazing 
My symptoms lasted from 2dpt to 7dpt and on 8dpt ALL is GONE - no symptoms😔
I don’t know how you all do it
