So I’m only 5 days into the 2 ww (4th time) and I’m doing the yo-yo I usually do. I try to think positively and concentrate on the little emby and tell it to make itself at home and bed-in and that we’ll be great parents and love it very much if it hangs on. Then the next moment in self preservation i think of all the things I can do the day after the test when it’s not worked- do some exercise, eat blue cheese (counter to the exercise I know !), order my favourite wine for Christmas. Then the cycle starts again. I guess I’m looking for reassurance- have anyone been convinced it’s not going to work and gladly been proved wrong ie negative thinking wont ruin it all or do I need to think positively all the time (not sure I can) to keep little emby going?? Any thoughts welcome!