Ivf round 2 ...

[ICSIBaby86]

We have treatment plan for IVF round 2 next week... we are supposed to be starting beginning of December but I am going to post pone till January as I feel like I need to just enjoy Christmas with my family...

I'm feeling nervous. A lot of the women I follow have had BFPs on either first fresh transfer, second FET or 3rd FET ... I've had 3 embryo transfers now with good grades that have resulted in a BFN !

I'm hoping round 2 is a new batch of embryos and for what ever reason might work this time,

I'm scared there's something wrong with me even though our infertility is down to male factor infertility they've found no reason that these embryos won't work. My consultant wouldn't even listen to the idea of NK cells has she says there's no concrete evidence to say it's really an issue and told me not to look into it any further. I've got a child from a previous relationship that is now 8 so I know I can carry a baby. I'm so frustrated to why 3 good embryos didn't work ! I'm feeling hopeful but fearful of the next round :/ what are other people's experiences has it taken more than one round ? Xxx

[7AVA]

I can’t offer any advice on success but wanted to wish you all the best for your next cycle. Xxx

[ICSIBaby86 in reply to 7AVA]

Thank you xxx

[Alessia]

Hello to you dear, how are you? I hope that everything is fine at your end. I also wish you a happy weekend. So the big day is tomorrow ehh? I am really glad for you dear. I am also sad for what happened, but to hell with it. That's how life is. Mostly unfair and cold as space. Now I have seen many times women fail their IVF attempts with even more than 5 healthy embryos! I have also seen women succeed at the first time with only one or two embryos! It is normal that you have ups and downs in life. Just don't let it consume you... It seems that you haven't though, I don't even have to mention it. It is awesome that you have the capability to move on and try again. This is a huge indicator that you will succeed eventually. I will be praying for you. You should do the same for yourself. God bless you dear and never lose hope. Lots of love for you my precious xxxooo

[ICSIBaby86 in reply to Alessia]

Thank you alessia for your kind words, I've seen lots of success stories with ivf round 1 it's hard not to compare, I know they recommend 3 rounds to have a successful outcome. Hopefully January 2018 will be the start of good things to come ! Thank you xxxxx take care xxx

[Alessia in reply to ICSIBaby86]

You are more than welcome dear. Well they say a lot of things... Maybe you will break the norm, haha. Let's hope so dear. Try not to be too nervous and try to enjoy some stuff. God bless you and I will be praying for you! Keep your smile shining... Thanks, and you take care too dear!

[Penders]

Hi I'm sorry that you don't have a success story yet. I think just enjoying Christmas is a good idea. I have recently had my first fresh round which has just ended in miscarriage 😢 I also have a 9 year old from a previous relationship and never had any problems with that pregnancy. Our factor is damaged tubes they think an infection got in after I had my daughter!

We are having a break till after Christmas so we too can just enjoy time with family without the stress of IVF appointments and injections.

I have seen a lot of success stories but I have also seen a lot of failures too. There's about 5 of us that have recently ended in miscarriage and there has been a few bfns the last few weeks. Please remember you are not alone in this, we are all right here with you! I wish you all the luck in the world for your next round and really hope that you get your success story. Lots of love xxxx