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Failed first cycle 😢

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Well we’ve had our BFN on our OTD. Just gotta see what happens next with the clinic 😢😢

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Rubinaa

I'm so sorry sweetie, your time will also come... I think your clinic may ask you to do a HCG test...

Sending you loads of hugs.

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Crazymrsrees79• in reply toRubinaa

Thank you Rubinaa, I haven’t come on my period yet so I’m waiting for them to ring me back now x

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MrsTM13

Sorry to hear this. It's not what you want to hear but on average statistically it takes 3 cycles. X

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Crazymrsrees79• in reply toMrsTM13

Thank you luv, you only get 2 cycles on the nhs don’t you? xx

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MrsTM13• in reply toCrazymrsrees79

I think it depends what area you live in and I think FETS might be covered under the one cycle but not sure. We've had to pay for all our treatment because my husband had a vasectomy x

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Crazymrsrees79• in reply toMrsTM13

Sorry luv but what’s FETS stand for? We’d pay a million pounds for a child if we could x

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MrsTM13• in reply toCrazymrsrees79

FET is frozen embryo transfer. So if you managed to freeze any embryos from this cycle. X

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Crazymrsrees79• in reply toMrsTM13

Ah ok, we had no frozen. I’m also thinking if I should of gone with just the one embryo instead of 2, one of them was a little behind but slow growing so wether my body concentrated more on that one. I just keep on wondering what if x

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MrsTM13• in reply toCrazymrsrees79

I know it's hard but don't torture yourself with what ifs. Focus on your plan for moving forward to next cycle, get your vitamins started now for egg equality etc and go into your review appointment with your clinic ready to go. Easy for me to say as I did the same as you with our chemical, miscarriage and BFN so I went into this cycle all guns blazing. I've been told if you question doing something then think hard about the decision as you'll do exactly what you're doing now and asking what ifs. Every cycle we've been advised not to transfer two and were told this time in particular they strongly felt that if we transferred our two best that both would have implanted. Easy for them to say as really it's all a game of luck I think x

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Crazymrsrees79• in reply toMrsTM13

I suppose the first cycle is a learning curve in a way. I’m on folic acid 5mg, vitamin d and bit b complex. They didn’t say so take any other vits. Thanks for the info luv x

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MrsTM13• in reply toCrazymrsrees79

I took other vitamins and this time more for egg quality. X

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Crazymrsrees79• in reply toMrsTM13

Could I have the name of those tablets please luv? xx

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MrsTM13• in reply toCrazymrsrees79

This time I took 300mg coq10, royal jelly, 1000mg vitamin c, zinc+magnesium+calcium, omega 3, vitamin e, preconception pregnacare vitamin and a vitamin d spray. X

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Crazymrsrees79• in reply toMrsTM13

Thank you x

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Tugsgirl

Bfns are cruel. Take care of yourself and enjoy spoiling yourself for a while. You did everything you could xx

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Crazymrsrees79• in reply toTugsgirl

Thank you 😘😘 x

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kelsbels88

I’m so sorry

Thinking of you and sending hugs 💕

Xx

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Crazymrsrees79• in reply tokelsbels88

Thank you 😘 x

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_MrsC

Sorry to see this. It's a very tough process. Spoil yourself for a little while as you recuperate. x

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Crazymrsrees79• in reply to_MrsC

Thank you x

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Lou9

Really sorry to hear this. Thinking about you. X

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Crazymrsrees79• in reply toLou9

Thank you 😘 x

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Cinderella5

Awww Im so sorry, its really hard when you get a BFN. The clinic should arrange for a follow up appointment and they'll let you know if they want to change anything for next time. Perhaps plan something nice to do as a reward for having to go through all of this. Sending hugs xx

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Crazymrsrees79• in reply toCinderella5

Thank you. Have an appointment for nov 17th now x

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Cinderella5• in reply toCrazymrsrees79

They do say that your first cycle is like an experiment so hopefully they've learned from this cycle!!x

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Loopielu

Sorry to see this. Be kind to yourself, it’s so tough xx

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Crazymrsrees79• in reply toLoopielu

Ain’t it just. Thank you x

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Lopsi78

hi there - i think we are on a similar track just now, i took my test on friday just gone, it was for my first cycle and got a negative, got my period this morning. its just awful - i really hope you're ok and being kind to yourself as much as you can be. take care and good luck moving forward x

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Crazymrsrees79• in reply toLopsi78

It’s hard hun, hope you’re ok? Were you on progesterone? They think I haven’t had my period because of the pessaries, I’m a week late xx

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Lopsi78• in reply toCrazymrsrees79

Yeah, progesterone pessaries. Glad at least I don't have to use them! X

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Crazymrsrees79• in reply toLopsi78

I’m glad I don’t have to use them anymore also. When are you going back for an appointment? x

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Lopsi78• in reply toCrazymrsrees79

i just have to wait until they contact me - which I have been told can take up to 4 weeks, which feels so long. I had thought they get you in straight away to try and figure what went wrong, but i dont this they even test you - its just one of those things sadly.

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Squeak2

Sorry to read your news, hugs to you xx

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Crazymrsrees79• in reply toSqueak2

Thank you x

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7AVA

Sorry to hear this. Look after yourself today xxx

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Crazymrsrees79• in reply to7AVA

Thank you x

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