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Hi everyone, Just joined proper - have been "dipping in" during our first cycle. We got the BNF last Tuesday. Just starting to have days when I'm not crying loads but still very sensitive. We have a review appt in January so starting to think about getting myself back on track and desperately trying to stay positive and have hope.....Off work at the mo whilst i get back on my feet.

Just gutted tho

Snowy x

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So sorry to hear this, look after yourself, sending huge hugs xx

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LauraGU

I'm really sorry to hear this. Take time and be kind to yourself. It does get easier in time I promise xxx

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Bule84

Hie Snowy76....am so sorry you got the BFN you are not alone hun,got mine last week but kept on testing till OTD am still gutted but taking small steps each day.You will be fine dear just give yourself time to let all ur emotions out.

Hope u get better soon....hugs Xx

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Amanda86

Sorry to hear this, BFN's are rubbish!

It takes a little time to heal, but it does get easier and soon you'll be ready to try again. I don't know how we do it but somehow we always find the strength.

Xxx

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E_05

So sorry to read this, BFN’s are awful. Take time to rebuild your strength, seems like a good thing that your off work for a while. In time things will seem better xx

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Kittygoo

So sorry you are going through this. Take every day as it comes and be kind to yourself. Glad to hear you have taken time off work I went back too soon after my unsuccessful fet and I really wish I had taken my time. Mind yourself xxxx

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Tugsgirl

Sorry about your bfn. They are tough 😞 xx

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Aleelilook

So sorry, it’s always hard when you put so much into it emotionally. Just take your time and be kind to yourself xx

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Beebeestar

Hi Snowy, so sorry to hear your news! It’s a terrible feeling after a BFN.

I found the review appointment helpful.

Give yourself time, this pain will go away!

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TTCs

Sorry about your BFN. Lets hope 2018 is your year 😘

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Snowy76

Thank you all for your messages. x Really appreciating having the time off - still find myself getting really emotional and then relieved I'm not in work and can just cry and curl up with the cats or in front of the telly. Am just starting to get my head round it all and starting to get body back on track....thanks again x

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