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AF has reared her ugly head tonight so I'm guessing that means I'm out. OTD is tomorrow which seems quite cruel. Mother Nature is a bitch sometimes. Thankyou to everyone for the amazing support throughout my fairly short IVF journey, you have genuinely helped me through and I wish you all the very best on your journeys x

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Cinderella5

Awww I'm so sorry to hear this, totally sympathise....I had this both cycles and it's beyond crap! Carry on with your meds just in case, the clinic will tell you to even if you know deep down you're out! Sending you a big cuddle!xx

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Leesalou

Big hugs, sorry to hear this, xx

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E_05

So sorry to read this, it really is so unfair xx

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NMP1026

Awe hun this sounds just like me two weeks ago. It's so unfair! Sending you hugs xx

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_MrsC

Oh I am so very sorry to read this. It is absolutely devastating. Do take your time to grieve this loss and to nurture yourself. Let yourself feel your disappointment for as long as you need. It gets easier with time but do give yourself time. Sending you a big hug. xxx

So sorry to hear this xxx

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Ems83

💗

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Tugsgirl

Sorry if I got your hopes up 😞 Xx

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Fredaflintstone

So sorry Nickie. It's so hard getting all bfn. Heart breaking. Look after and be kind to yourself. It doesn't get easier though it won't feel like that right now. Sending you huge hugs xxx

Sorry to hear this but wait for your test maybe you will be lucky and it's unexplained bleeding fingers crossed xxx

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Lou9

So sorry to hear your news. I'm thinking of you and sending you strength. Xx

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Scarlett13

😘

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Nickie17

Thankyou all for your kind words....you really are all so lovely. It's bizarre how despite us being virtual strangers, I've gained such strength from this group...it just obviously wasn't my time but I'm grateful for at least getting this far x

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ch319

So cruel sorry to hear this. But you are only out this time/this month. Keep the faith xx

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Amanda86

Really sorry to hear that 🙁 Take care 😘 Xxx

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Sunshine09

Sending big hugs ❤️😘

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Hormomalmess

Big hugs, life can be so cruel sometimes. Look after yourself xxx

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Gem1982

Sorry to hear this, hope you are ok. Keep going , you will get there x x

I am just so very sorry. Thinking of you and sending love and hugs at this really difficult time. xxx

😓💕💕💕💕💕 lots of loves xxx

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AllWeNeedIsluv

So sorry hun hope your OK xxx big hugs xx

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sunshineyellow

So sorry to hear this xxx

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Rainbow_86

I've been following your story... and I'm absolutely gutted to read this. After you invest so much into the process.... it's just the cruelest thing. Take time to look after yourself and repair. I'm always here if you need a chat. I'm so sorry x

So sorry to read this xxx

Really sorry to hear this xx

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Nickie17

It was a BFN as expected 😔 I am heartbroken but deep down knew it was always a long shot 💔 At least we tried.

Thankyou all so much for your support x

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NMP1026 in reply toNickie17

Aww no so sorry. Thinking of you. Sending love and a hug xx

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Cinderella5

Sorry to hear your result! BFNs are really tough, take some time to grieve before you thinking about the next step and plan something nice to do together! Big hugs!xx

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lorraineb61

Oh no, sorry to hear about your BFN - the journey sucks when it doesn't work. Take time to grieve & enjoy life x

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