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I'm out 🙁

After knowing deep down our first round has failed, our nurse more or less confirmed we will have a negative result when I call for our blood test at 12.30. We are both crushed and the thought of having to call at 12.30 to hear what we already know is making me feel sick.

Ironically, the doctor was really happy my ohss had gone and I was back to normal, however the nurse said it was an indicator I wasn't pregnant. I can't win can I?!

Good luck with all your journeys and I'm sure we will be back. Xxx

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I’m truly sorry to read this. I have a feeling I’ll be out tomorrow too. I’m thinking of you xx

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Thank you so much and thank you for your support lately, it really has helped me. I'm keeping everything crossed for you. Let me know how it goes, sending lots of hugs xxx

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You’re welcome. I’ll post an outcome tomorrow but I have a feeling it hasn’t worked this time as I don’t have any of the symptoms I had in my “successful” cycles. Thank you xx

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Aww... I’m sorry to read this. Have recently been through it myself and it’s rubbish. With each day that passes, you’ll both get stronger though.

We won’t be beaten is my mantra! Sending you big hugs 💕 xx

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Oh I’m so sorry to hear this. Wishing you all the best for any future cycles xx

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I think I’m out too. OTD isn’t until Thursday but I tested early and got BFN. Sorry to hear it. It sucks doesn’t it!

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Hope you're OK Lynn xxx

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Sorry lovely to hear this big hugs 💗🤗😘

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Ahhh thinking of you, Im sorry!xx

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so sorry to hear laura, take your time to process and hold each other tight.

sending love & light 💕✨

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Hi Laura! Well, I am extremely sorry to hear that all. I know how you feel. But, I really wish you all the best for later cycles. You can still get it done! Stay blessed! xx TC!

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Hcg level of 8 so they think little embie tried but didn't make it. Back for a blood test next week then hopefully get booked in for a fet in May. Is it bad I've already had coffee, a hot bath and a large wine...... Xxx

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god no - that’s exactly what i did after my last failed cycle. your poor body has been through so much you’ve been deprived of all your favourite things. pure torture. stuff your face guilt free xxx

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Thank you so much. I've had all the I'm sorry texts from the small circle of family and friends that knew but I feel you all understand this so much better and it's making this whole process so much easier xxx

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oh totally - id be lost without this forum. unless someone has been through this, they’ve no idea how painful the journey is.

we are all here for you xx

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I am so sorry to hear that Laura. May God Make you strong and take you through these hard times. Your miracle awaits next time. Look after yourself x

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I am so sorry. you will get to hear the big news one day. Just don't lose hope. It takes time sometimes. As they say, Good things take time to happen.

Be patient with it. I wish that things turn out to be great for you. xx

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Oh, such a hard luck. Really feeling pain deep inside myself. But don't you worry. You will be successful soon. Just never lose hope. Everything has its own time to happen. We have to wait for that moment patiently. God's plans are always the best. Many prayers for your next cycle.

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So sorry to hear this, take care of yourself xx

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