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So just taken the test and it's a definite negative result, it's not fare, I just wish I didn't feel so I'll! I feel sick and still getting cramps , I'm hoping all these feeling leave quickly as it's not fare to feel like your pregnant when your not !

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So so sorry Lind. I wish there was something I could say to help. Thinking of you xx

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Thankyou I don't think there is anything anyone can do and I really wish I didn't have to go to work today but I do , my mum keeps saying maybe it's too early to know but I said to her she is clutching at straws, that's just life unfortunately

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Really sorry, I had the same last weekend it's really really hard. You will get through though. One step at a time. Xx

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Thankyou, I've just called the fertility clinic and left a voicemail , do they say or do anything after or is that it do I have to go through the whole proceeding again even if I have eggs frozen ?

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Depends on how many eggs you have frozen. And you are likely to have a review meeting too. If you have frozen embies, you dont have to go thru the entire stimulation phase of IVF, so FET is easier on the body, so many say. xx

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well, i correct myself - even if you have just 1 frozen, like me, you can still do a FET. XX

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Yes correct xx

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Am sorry Hun big hug xx

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I'm really sorry Sweets. It is unfair and it is maddening. Thinking of you today. xxx

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Oh bless you. It's so unfair. I had to work too and it was hard to start with (lots of tears and mascara everywhere) but i found it got easier as the day went on and keeping busy helped. Hopefully you get a review meeting quickly (my clinic said I didn't need to have one if I wanted to just go again) and be kind to yourself today. xx

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So sorry to hear this look after yourself , sending huge hugs xx

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So sorry to hear this, your right it's not fair xx

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So sorry to hear this. Definitely not fair, especially after everything we go through. Look after yourself xxx

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Sorry to read this 😞 xx

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So sorry to read this. It's heart breaking and as you say so bloody unfair! Look after yourself hun. Sorry you have to go to work today - that's going to be hard - do you absolutely have to go? Can't you phone in sick? See how you go and maybe go home early if you can. It will get easier but the first week is the hardest. You should have a follow up appointment and can talk about next steps there. If you have frosties you can try again as soon as you feel ready and won't need to take the stims drugs, just whatever you needed to take to get your body ready - I have to take hrt in the run up cos my cycles are irregular but if yours are regular you should be able to do it more naturally. Sending you hugs xxxx

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So sorry to read this, take care of yourself today. It really is an unfair journey xx

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So sorry 😔 Put yourself first today. Thinking of you. X

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So sorry. It just isn't fair. Thinking of you xx

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Really sorry to hear this, look after yourself today. Keep an eye out for OHSS symptoms - I think you can still get them now which, I agree feels totally unfair xxx

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I'm so sorry. You're right, it's not fair! Thinking of you xxx

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So sorry 🙁 Xxx

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So sorry hun. Sending big hugs. Xx

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