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Unfortunately I had a misscarriage on Sunday just over a week after getting our positive. We are devastated and can't believe the emotions we have been through in one week. Does anyone know when we will be able to try again? Will it take as long as it did to get started the first time? We have four frozen

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danielledavison

Hi I am so sorry to read this you must be feeling so lost for words right now, I did too have a failed ivf in November last year. We have 7 frozen its good you have some frozen to look forward too only when your ready, can I ask the cause of your infertility. Mine is tubal factor infertility, im having my remaining tube removed before I have a frozen transfer. x

I'm so so sorry to hear ur sad news there are no words anyone can say to make it better. Sending u lots of love and hugs. Take care of yourself X x x

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jillmooney

So sorry to read this, I had a miscarriage a couple of years ago so understand your pain. Good luck for the future, sending lots of love xxxx

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jenny34

I'm so so sorry to hear this. Sending lots of love. I guess you'll be offered a review at the clinic and they will advise you on how long to wait before trying again xxx

So sorry to hear this :( x

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Newivf

So sorry to hear your news I'm gutted for u I,ve been told three months to review appointment and then another three months for treatment but I think everyone is different

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sjamalou

I know how you feel I've had 3 miscarriages it's a roller coaster of emotions. Rest and let your body heal before starting again. Maybe go on a nice sun holiday to really relax xx

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Flossy85

So sorry to hear your sad news. Sending big hugs your way. Maybe ring your clinic when your ready to and ask about timeframes and possibly make appointment for a chat. I would imagine your body may need time to heal. I had my transfer around the same time as you but ours didn't take at all, we have an apppointment on 21july to plan the FET into my next cycle from there. It will vary at different clinics and different as your body has been through so much more. Focus on healing first then make a plan with the clinic. All the best and lots of love xx

Hi I know how you feel I had a miscarriage a couple of weeks ago I even saw my babys heartbeat at 7 weeks then I miscarried at 12 weeks like you were devastated its very painful as we only had one embryo and none frozen.. im really glad you have some frozen I would ring your clinic and let them know and they should book you a follow up appointment so you can ask all the questions you need to. I think you have to wait around 3 months until you have any more transfers. . Just giving you time emotionally and physically to get back to yourself of that makes sense. We have a follow up apt on the 25th off june i want to try icsi again but im gonna wait until next year now We need to save up as we only got 1 nhs try due to postcode lottery Good look with everything xx

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MrsMarsh

Sum1sweeta, u still play on my mind, such devasting news... I'm still so worried... Can you not donate some of your eggs to get IVF free? You have to pay for drugs and probably icsi but it will save you a lot of money x x

Lister hospital does egg sharing and you only pay the hfea license fee which is £75 you get all your drugs and consultations free. They do free egg sharing evenings to guide u through the process . That's wot me and my hubby are doing if I get accepted. We are attending a free open next Thursday we don't get funding either.Sorry to but in on this post. X x x

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Magic80

Hi I'm so sorry you have been through such an emotional week I was following how you had got on all the way through. Just know everyone on here is there for you xx

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winkalik

i am so sorry for your lost i know how you feel i lost a baby on the 27th may if you need to talk please message me

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Katm123

So so sorry to hear you news. Be kind to yourself and take your time. Big hugs.xx

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veggiegal

Passing on best wishes and hugs. I've just been told 2 months until can go again. I didn't have any good enough to freeze.

Take care and very good luck.

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Soconfused07

Thank you ladies hope we all have some good news soon xxx

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