Lost baby

[SuzanneAM]

Not much I can really say other than I went for scan today to check baby's heart beat at 8 weeks 6 days and there was no heart beat anymore and no growth. Lost 😢......so upset, I had to stop the car on the way home because my husband was so upset he couldn't breath, I've never seen him like that before......there are no words

[FatC]

Hi Suzanne AM

So sorry to hear this It's a horrible situation. I had a similar experience last week at my 12 week scan and had surgery on Wednesday. It truly is the worst feeling in the world but you and hubby will get through it !!! Take time and care of yourselves especially in the days ahead. Sending some peace your way.

[noodles_]

Oh no I had everything crossed for you for today Suzanne. I'm so so sorry. I don't even know what to say. I've just burst out crying. Life is so cruel sometimes. As if this journey's not hard enough. I hope once you've had time to grieve you'll find the strength to try again. Sending lots of hugs your way 💜 x x

[Hope_faith]

So sorry to hear of your loss sending lots of hugs x

[Hollibob]

I'm sorry. Definitely a sad day....the pain is raw.

After the journey you have with treatment, to then face this is the real kick in the teeth.

You both need to take as much time to grieve as you have to.

The days do get easier, but there are good and bad days..days of memories.

Just make sure you hold each other through the tough times and know that one day you will be strong enough again to discuss the future and that this is nothing that you have caused or could have changed.

Big hugs x

[Hidden]

I'm so sorry for your loss sending hugs x

[Hopeful1982]

Oh SuzanneAM, I am so sorry to hear this. It's a terrible experience for any woman to go through. Take time to grieve and be kind to yourself just now. There's nothing you could have done x

[Erland]

So, so sorry Suzanne. There are a lot of people out there thinking of you and sending their love. I'm one of them. X

[E81hopefull]

Hi SuzanneAM just read your post and had to stop myself from crying. I'm so so sorry I can only try imagine how you must be feeling right now! Just wanted to say my thoughts are with you and sending hugs your way xxx

[Anjel2]

So sorry to hear your sad news. This journey seems incredibly cruel at times and so difficult. Like most others have said give yourselves time to grieve and be there for each other. You will get through this but just take it one day at a time. Sending you big hugs xx

[Dolly8]

So sad. My heart goes out to you. Your post brought a tear to my eye. Wishing you luck for the future xx

[Filmgirl101]

I am so sorry.

[Hidden]

I'm really sorry to hear of your loss Suzanne 😢 So cruel 😢 Thinking of you in this difficult time. Take care of yourselves,and remember none of this is your fault 💗X

[Hidden]

Thinking of you both at this sad time xxx

[pm27]

I'm so sorry to hear about your loss. It's so horrible for both of you. We discovered our naturally conceived identical twins had died at 8 weeks at the usual 12 week scan 2 years ago. The shock was horrendous and took a long time to get over. The Miscarriage Association have a helpful website and a helpline with information for men and women as well as wider family.

I opted for medical management but having been through that I'd go for surgery. I'm happy to answer questions about medical management if you want via PM.

Look after each other.

[Hidden]

Be good to each other xx massive hihs and strength to you both 😘

[Astrojules]

Massive hugs xx that is just so so sad xx

[Sharon2015]

So sorry, can't imagine how you are feeling, big hugs x

[smallcat]

Suzanne, so very sorry for your loss. Sending you healing wishes, you have support networks here and please contact networks such as the Miscarriage Association and make use of the ivf counselling support when you feel able. No words can really help right now, but healing will come in time. As Tamtam said, be kind to each other. ((hugs and strength)) xxxxx

[DSan]

So sorry for your loss xxx

[SuzanneAM]

Thank you all for your messages and support. Feel abit spaced out at the moment, stomach pains have begun I've decided to let things happen natural with miscarriage xx

[Hotmama11]

So sorry for your loss. I have had 7 miscarriages over five years. It's tough but you will come out the other side but give yourself time to grieve.