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Hello everyone.

So, a did my 3rd ivf transfer on 19th last month and finally got a positive ๐Ÿ˜Š๐Ÿ˜Š. Since them am feeling like my period is coming you know?! I'm feel really bloated, soft cramps, but not blood at all. What I would like to know, if anyone know ๐Ÿ˜Š, is if with the medication from ivf treatment that I'm still taking for more 7weeks, I can feel a miscarriage normally?

I'm getting scare, this is my 3rd try, me and my husband are really happy.

Thank you

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You and I are both the same point exactly in our pregnancies! I'm 6 weeks today too! I was feeling twinges till last week. I also bled @4 weeks and 2 days ( only for two days but enough to scare me,). I can't comment on the IVF as we fell naturally after trying for six years! I think if you're having a miscarriage you'll know- bleeding and lots of pain. A few twinges here and there I wouldn't worry over. I think because we have fought so hard to get pregnant we are understandably worried it could be taken away off us! I don't have any advice how to shake the paranoid thoughts (I haven't managed to despite increased Pregnancy symptoms after the bleeding). If you have concerns then I'd contact your clinic or GP for reassurance. Mine have arranged a scan for this Friday which I'm dreading. I wish you the best with your pregnancy xoxo

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Thanks hun. We try for 4 years till I decided to see a doc, and after 1year of treatment and 2 "losses" I'm a little paranoid ๐Ÿ˜Š but till now, no bleeding and just some bloated feeling. My clinic arrange 1st scan for the 25th, but till there I'm getting nervous and anxious ๐Ÿ˜“ hope it's nothing to worry about

Thank you for your words best wishes for your family ๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ˜‰๐Ÿ˜Š

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I was assured that cramping is very normal in pregnancy. Unless its severe abdominal pain and/or accompanied by red blood then it's nothing to worry about. Having said that I do understand the fear xx

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It's nothing severe, really. Thank you

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