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In May we found out that our surprise natural conception inbetween IVF rounds wasnt meant to be. I had a missed miscarriage and ended up in hospital for medical management. Its the worst thing ive gone through.

Im now in the 2ww of my second cycle post miscarriage hoping that i am pregnant again. Our IVF issue is unexplained infertility and after a long discussion we've decided to leave IVF for a year and see if we can do this narurally. If i managed to get pregnant then it must be able to happen again. Right?

I feel like this journey will never end. My friend has just her baby and im pretty sure another is waiting to announce shes pregnant. Another friend has decided to start trying this month. I cant shake this feeling that this is never going to happen for me ☹

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Tugsgirl

So sorry for your loss. Happened to me in April but mine was after a fet. Missed miscarriage and surgery. I hope I don't ever repeat that.. I'm now in the tww of another fet following my miscarriage. Two of my best friends are pregnant. One announced it to me while I was on my way home from transfer at the clinic last week. I'm with you on feeling like the journey will never end. Good luck with ttc naturally. I hope this is your time xx

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NsKaz

Hi Sara, I'm so sorry to hear that. It must be such an awful time for you. Fingers crossed this will be your lucky round. Xx it's always so difficult when you are surrounded by people. At my lowest point 7 of my friends announced their pregnancies in 2 weeks - I just lost my mind! They are all having their babies now - my best friend had hers on Friday just gone and another friend has hers on Sunday.

I know how hard it is to switch that voice off that says "is this ever gonna happen for me", but if u can ignore it I think it saves u from going loopy (or at least it does me - somedays!)

Wishing you love, luck and baby dust. Xx

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Cinderella5

Sorry for your loss! It is hard seeing everyone else have their family, feels like life is passing you by, know how that feels! Wishing you lots of luck and positive vibes for a bfp!xx

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