Donor insemination, what is the process? - Fertility Network UK

Fertility Network UK

56,412 members59,748 posts

Donor insemination, what is the process?

KayandRach profile image
6 Replies

Hi everyone!

So my partner and I were referred last year for donor insemination. Last week we received a letter saying we need to have some routine tests, progesterone, s.t.i check. All routine stuff. The letter states that once we have had these tests done we will get our initial appointment at the fertility clinic.

Does anyone know what else happens before the insemination treatment begins?

We are extremely excited but also quite nervous because we don't know what to expect.

Any information would be extremely welcomed :)

Thanks!!

Kay and Rach

Written by
KayandRach profile image
KayandRach
To view profiles and participate in discussions please or .
Read more about...
6 Replies
Hampshiregal profile image
Hampshiregal

Hiya I'm sure others will give a better answer but we met with a coordinator who explained the treatment plans - inc. realistic timeframe for donor (6 months for donor eggs at my clinic). Asked if had any questions and went through the paperwork. They then kept me updated with emails. Best wishes x

Lola675 profile image
Lola675

that was such a great explanation! helpful for me too )))

KayandRach profile image
KayandRach

Thank you! Do you know what happens step by step. As in, How do we chose the donor. How long is the wait once you've chosen the donor etc? What is the process from start to finish, from the initial consultation to the start of insemination treatment. I hope we don't have to wait too long!!

Hampshiregal profile image
Hampshiregal in reply toKayandRach

You have not said if you are having treatment in here or abroad? I had treatment privately in Southampton (as was too old for nhs treatment). You don't choose the donor, they are matched to you based on some of your preferences. The coordinator asks if you want them to have the same hair, eye colour, blood group. They match ethnic group. I was asked to send pictures of me & OH and list hobbies. My clinic was able to estimate 6 months typical wait. Guess what, it was! Put on donor list February and now on tww. My coordinator explained that they match you to the right person and it's not a matter of just getting to the top of the list. They asked that I didn't pester them about it. I could ask questions about treatment but not to keep asking how long I'd have to wait or where I'd got to on the list. I'd had treatment with them before trying with my own eggs so knew they were professional. Hope that helps x

KayandRach profile image
KayandRach

Sorry, we are having treatment in the UK. In Edinburgh on the NHS. I guess all areas have different waiting times depending on the number of people wanting treatment and also the number of donors available. I had it in my head that once we got our appointment through we would begin the Insemination treatment. I didn't realise there was another 6 month wait for the donor sperm :( it will be worth the wait though! Let me know how you get on :) :)

Hampshiregal profile image
Hampshiregal in reply toKayandRach

Hiya I just saw your response. Yes, each clinic has their own waiting list depending on volunteer donors. I think I was pretty lucky with 6mths but this is why many people choose to go abroad, no waiting list in Spain/Greece etc. Good luck to you both. Btw, I have a positive result and hoping it continues.

Not what you're looking for?

You may also like...

Ask Diane - no more Ivf, now insemination?

Hi Diane I had my follow up today, the doctor's s still trying to piece together how we got...

IUI insemination!

IUI insemination complete. Start vaginal pessaries Friday PM and continue twice daily until...
Ajplus1 profile image

IUI insemination TOMORROW!

Super shocked, super excited, super nervous! I had about 4 missed calls from our clinic nurses this...
Ajplus1 profile image

Experiences in Artificial Insemination

Our doctor wants to start with Artificial Insemination and if it doesn't work out then move to IVF....
MammaMia86 profile image

Insemination done on Friday and now the dreaded 2ww!!

Had my donor insemination done yesterday, I was pretty nervous though but everything went ok. I...

Moderation team

See all
Claire_FNUK profile image
Claire_FNUKAdministrator
JA-fnuk profile image
JA-fnukPartner

Content on HealthUnlocked does not replace the relationship between you and doctors or other healthcare professionals nor the advice you receive from them.

Never delay seeking advice or dialling emergency services because of something that you have read on HealthUnlocked.