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Little one in heaven

yesterday our little one joined his 3 brothers and sisters along with our 2 embies which didn't make it. It was very traumatic and distressing, a huge amount of blood loss, but the hospital were wonderful and we even got to hold our little one wrapped in a little blue knitted sleeping bag (I was always convinced he was a boy but it was too early to tell). I would not want anyone to go through this. It truly was the worst day of my life. Good luck all you brave ladies and gents. I really hope you get your happy endings. Thanks, as always for your tremendous support xxx

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I'm so sorry to hear what you have been through. I don't have the words - I suspect there aren't any really - to say. I just wanted to say that I'm thinking of you and I hope you have the support around you that you need. It is a terrible and cruel loss you have suffered. Xx

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😞 xxx

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Sending u lots of love.xxxxx

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So sorry for your loss. ❤️ Such an awful day. Sending lots of hugs. Hope you're being looked after well and can at least rest xxx

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❤️ Xxx

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Hon, all I can say is having done exactly this 3 weeks ago it does get easier. It really was the single most physically and mentally traumatic thing I have ever lived through. Thinking of you. Lots of love xxx

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I'm so sorry for your loss. xx

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Oh my. Sorry for your loss.

What was the reason of mc? And what are thinking about surrogacy?

I got one mc in the past and now surrogacy is the only option for me (can`t take medicine when pregnant, but can`t live without it, because of mental health)...

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So sorry for your loss xx

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So sorry for your loss xxx

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Hey miss lady...

I feel your pain holding something so tiny, so fragile born too early....

That's heart wrenching pain will simmer but never leave you.

Take it just 1minute at a time nothing more nothing less.

Big hugs x

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Devastating, life is just too cruel! 😔 Thinking of you xx 💐

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Thinking of you.

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💔xxxx sendings loads of love x

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Oh bless you both! Lots of love xx

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Thinking of you Louise, I can't imagine how hard that was for you both. You are incredible xxx

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I was thinking of you 😪 It's the most horrendous experience you're so brave- we all are! Lots of love xxx

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I am really sorry for your loss!!!!!!!!!

Sending love!

xx

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So so sorry my lovely. I can't begin to imagine what you are going through 😥 sending you all the love ❤️

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So sorry sending love and thoughts xx

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I'm so sorry again Louise, what a horrible day for you. I hope you heal ok physically and emotionally in time too. Big hugs xx

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You poor thing. It sounds absolutely horrendous! Sending you lots of hugs xxx

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Such sadness! My heart goes out to you. I am so sorry for this indescribable pain and loss xx

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So so sorry to hear about your traumatic experience and huge sadness. I'm glad the hospital treated you well. I'm thinking of you. xxx

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So sorry to read this and sorry for your loss. Xx

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So sorry dear . Absolutely heartbreaking experience. Sending u loads of hugs my dear and prayers

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Sending you lots of love... Brave lady..

Xx

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I am truly sorry for your loss! Big hugs x

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So sorry for your loss xx

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I'm so so sorry for your loss. Your post is heartbreaking... words can't even express. I am so sorry for your loss. Sending you strength to get through this xxxxxx

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😔 thinking of you xxx

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I'm so sorry for your loss. It's just so traumatic and heartbreaking. Just try to be kind to yourself and take one day at a time. My thoughts are with you xxx

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So so sorry xxx

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This is such a sad situation for you, I'm ever so sorry I send you lots of love xxx

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Hugest and biggest love to you x

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So sorry it's just heartbreaking x

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I am sorry to know about your loss. Have you discussed additional testing with yr doc? Genetics is often the issue, particularly during the 1st trimester. From what I know, a doc might recommend doing karyotyping. If genetics is confirmed, you might consider combining your treatment with PGS NGS to increase your chances of having a problem-free pregnancy.

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