Impatience and a BFN

[Saarah92]

Hey ladies, tested today even though it's only 5dp5dt.

I've been cramping like mad, sore boobs and it was just on my mind so thought I'd give it a shot.

Can't help but be disappointed!

Any more of you ladies you tested early and got BFN and tested later to get a BFP.

My impatience got the better of me 😔

Feeling crappy now

X

[NDE1987]

Hey Hun I don't have any advice to give but I was inpatient like you and have tested twice in my 2ww and got a negative both times. So I kind of know what to expect on Monday when I am meant to officially test. Iv had another cry this morning and feel so lost. My husband is also a bit sad and has gone quite. Were meant to be going out later so hopefully that should take our mind of it. I have frozen embryos but that doesn't mean anything because this is my second ivf and it's more than likely going to fail and IV had 2 IUIs which failed aswell. I'm 30 and have to face that we may never have kids. This jourbey is draining and I have forgotten what happiness feels like. X

[NDE1987]

Forgot to mention i also had loads of cramps and my boobs ached the first week. But the Wednesday gone I had a little bleeding and my cramps and boobs don't hurt anymore. The spotting lasted only a little bit but I don't have no pain at all. Hope it works out for you. And sorry for the down post x

[Saarah92 in reply to NDE1987]

Hey I'm sorry to hear that. Perhaps your HCG is just not high enough. Just test on Monday and take it from there.

Yes do go out and have a good time.

I wish you all the best.

Big hugs xxx

[Hope85]

I'm sure I have read that the drugs affect your test if taken early! I woke up this morning and have decided I am going to wait till at least next Wednesday because I test (that's if I can control myself 🙈) good luck to you Hun xxx

[Tugsgirl]

See it in here all the time; ladies test early with a bfn then on otd it's a bfp. This is why I never test early, I couldn't put myself through it. Good luck 🍀 I hope you get your bfp on your otd 🤞 X

[emu2016 in reply to Tugsgirl]

Agreed! I was so scared of this I wouldn't test early...by the time it came to testing I was almost too scared! Good luck Saarah x