Hello all, i hope you've had a good weekend, whether basking in your recent good news, waiting patiently for it or coming to terms with not so great news xx
I have a question regarding the counselling.
I know it's mandatory for most, if not all, couples to undergo during the process, but at what point does it start??
Between being pushed from pillar to post with 2 hospitals, having our funding refused and then the decision overturned and confirmed and now having to wait for the laparoscopy that I should have had with the dye test back in October, we haven't even really 'started' the process yet!
It all came to a head this weekend when myself and my partner argued literally ALL WEEKEND
It didn't even start about IVF, it was something else completely that just spiraled into us arguing about everything. It's struck me that this is harder on both of us than we're both actually admitting to one another (more so to save each other the heart ache)
So i guess my question is, can we ask for the counselling to start now? I'm worrying that if we don't start it sooner rather than later, we wont even make it to starting the IVF...
Any advice is greatly appreciated xx