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Deja vu- only 1 egg collected just like last cycle

Deja vu- only 1 egg collected just like last cycle

Despite having 11 follicles (best number yet) Devastated. Trying desperately to stay positive as we are not out till the phone call tomorrow. But can't help feel our chances slipping through our fingers. 1st cycle 5 eggs, BFP but miscarried at 16 weeks. 2nd cycle one egg, BFP but lost at 6 weeks. Now this. Im the slimmest I've been in years (lost 18lbs), the fittest, and the most relaxed in the last week. All boxes ticked. But my body clearly is just crap.

I know it ain't over till it's over but I need to be prepared for the worst.

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Big hugs to you for all you've been through so far xx

Like you said, don't be too disheartened yet (easy to say, i know!)...it only takes one to make that little miracle..

Stay strong xx

PS amazing quote, I'll be stealing that ;)

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Thanks for your kind response. And steal away 😉 x

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You're very welcome xx

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Sorry it's not a better number WeeMrsH but everything crossed that's your one 🙏🏻😘

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Thank you x

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Sorry it wasn't a better number but keep the faith on this one x

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Thanks. Trying to emmab178! x

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Ahhhh Im sorry to hear that, your hopes being dashed like that it so hard! Praying that you have a wee figher there!xx

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Thanks hon x

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Keeping everything crossed for you, this journey is so tough! Well done for making all those positive changes in your life, hopefully your egg is going to be a perfect one as a result xxxx

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That's what my husband keeps telling me- hope so x

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Have got everything crossed for good news this morning xxxx

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Everything crossed for this little one. 🍀🍀🍀 hope you are ok x

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Thank you, I will be fine I'm sure hon x

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It only takes one .....

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It does. Just hope it's got what it takes, and the sperm and egg manage to get it on. 😉 Doubt I'll sleep again tonight - need to try as need to be on form tomorrow to take whatever news they have xx

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They will be getting jiggy I just know it xxx

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I'll keep my fingers crossed for your egg 🤞 xx

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Thanks Vicky xx

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Everything crossed for you xxx

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Appreciate it Button-123 x

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Xxx

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I remember the feeling so well of feeling my body was 'crap' and couldn't do what other women found so easy. But it is not yours or your bodies fault. We wouldn't blame ourselves in this way for any other illness. It is so hard having cycles that don't respond well on a treatment that is hard enough on its own. I will keep everything crossed for your solo warrior and hope the next few days brings you some more positive news. Hugs and best wishes xx

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Thanks Anna x

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Fingers crossed for a third time lucky! I'll be thinking of you

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Thank you x

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I have absolutely everything crossed for your eggy and for tomorrow's phone call 😘😘🤞🤞🤞

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Thank you Dolly. I'm not sure I'm strong enough to cope if it doesn't fertilise 😢🤞🏼 x

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You are a strong woman, lovely lady 😘Try not to think into tomorrow yet, cope with today's news and recovering from collection. Preferably with Ben and Jerry's, duvet and a good old box set! Tomorrow is another day, my love however fingers, toes, legs and eyes are crossed for you in the meantime 😘😘😘😘🤞🤞🤞🤞

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🎉🎉🎉By the way, you are AMAZING!!! 18lb weigh loss!! That's awesome!!!!! 🙌🎉🎉🎉

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Haha think I've made a good effort at putting a few of those lbs back on today with what I've eaten! Allowing myself today to wallow and if we get good news in the morning I'll be back on the straight and narrow! Thank you for your kind words 😘 xx

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Good on you! Im proud of you for going hard on the food today, a lady after my own heart!!!! 🍛🍮🍭🍪☕️🥛🍬🍰🍦

I was always told a little of what you like does you no harm, that and it doesn't count after collection (I may have just made that one up 😂)

I'll be looking out for your next post 😘😘😘

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Hoping you have a positive phone call tomorrow. Have faith in your egg and try to have a restful night. Fingers crossed. x

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HeyweeMrs, sorry you have not had more eggs at collection today you must be emotionally drained, I bet that little singleton is strong and fighting. Stay positive its far from over, only 1 is produced naturally for a reason! Everything crossed for your call tomorrow.xx

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Thanks LBM1979, I guess you are right that only one is produced naturally for a reason, that makes me feel better xx

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Wishing you all the best and thinking of you xx

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Thanks! Super anxious x

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Wishing you all the best for good news x

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Thank you! x

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