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Broken heart

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I just found out that my first ICSI attempt has failed. I am so broken hearted and gutted. Seven yrs with no luck at all. I'm 42, low AMH. Planning for second icsi after recovery. Hope this will work coz I have no time. Desperately want to be a mom.

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beauty1984

Im so sorry to hear this. It's such a heartbreaking thing to go through and such a difficult time. Take all the time you need to try and cope and don't give up. You're so strong to have got this far, I wish you all luck x

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Tugsgirl

I'm sorry for your bfn. I know they're hard to deal with. Be kind to yourself and good luck for your next round 🍀 x

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ICSIBaby86

So sorry to hear this... I'm coming to the last few days of my TWW and I've tested BFN yesterday... I understand how sad you feel, sending you love. It's my first attempt also... it's such a difficult process ❤

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Amanda86

So sorry. I understand how devastated you must be feeling. It's so hard. Take time to recover and come back when your ready.

Take care xxx

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skatty

So so sorry - it's tough as we age as I find my embryo quality is nosediving (even though I have good AMH for 40). If my present cycle doesn't work I've got some serious questions to consider. Maybe not giving up yet, but changing clinic? How about you - or forgive me if it's too early of you to plan... Just ignore me then... Are you open to DE or adoption?

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Thanks for your support. In my second attempt I will change the clinic . I gave myself three attempts if it is possible in my condition . Re DE and adoption not in the mind as my husband doesn't like the idea. There is still hope. Let's pray

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skatty in reply to

All the very best x

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anna0908

Bfn's are so hard. Take time to grieve and you will find strength again. There are options out there for you that will lead to you being a mum. Sending my best wishes to you. Xx

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emu2016

Big hugs. Xx

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Daxi16

Stay strong and believe it will happen. Thoughts are with you xx

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