My heart is broken once again

[Ssharu123]

I am 11 days post transfer

This was my first fet

I tested today with clear blue and got a bfn😞

But the kit says that it should be used only one week after the expected day of period

So I think clear blue might not be appropriate so early

It might be a false negative

Tomorrow I am going for test at the clinic

And I don’t want to raise my hopes only to be disappointed again

I have read post about getting a bfp as early as 8 days post transfer

So I feel sad and hopeless

I know someday it will happen but the waiting is really terrible!

[Smang]

Hi Ssharu, is today your test day or tomorrow? It’s possible it may change if that is the case. I’ve seen on here where one day was negative and then test day was positive. Wishing you the best of luck xx

[Ssharu123 in reply to Smang]

Yes my test day is tomorrow

[Ssharu123 in reply to Smang]

Thank you dear😊

[DianeArnold Partner Nurse Fertility Network UK]

Hi Sscharu123. Could be a false negative. You will soon find out whats going on when you have a proper test done at your clinic. Wishing you huge luck for tomorrow. Diane

[Ssharu123 in reply to DianeArnold]

Thank you dear😊

[nataliejames492]

Hi. How long have you been trying? I know it is very tiring. Hoping, failing, then hoping again. I really hope you don't get disappointed again. I tried for years and years without succeeding. Then one day, just gave up. I opted for surrogacy then.

[Ssharu123 in reply to nataliejames492]

I have been trying for the last one year

But actually my endometriosis was diagnosed last year and my treatment started in November so its not been much time

This is my first cycle

My fresh transfer failed so this was my first fet

I have more frozen embryo left

I may go for surrogacy but only after I try one more fresh cycle and I will also try donor eggs