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Unfortunately our first IVF cycle failed. I started spotting 5 days post transfer and now on full AF day 8. Sad times but trying to stay positive for next cycle. Well done to all you successful people xxx

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Oliverl

I'm so sorry Emily xx

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Blondyboo

so sorry keep strong xx

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DianeArnoldPartnerNurseFertility Network UK

Hi Emily7. So sorry to hear this, as it is never easy to deal with. I do hope that you are getting some support. I do have a couple of lists of questions I can send you to have a look through before you go back for a follow up appointment. They are too long to add here, but if you email me in confidence to support@fertilitynetworkuk.org I will send them to you. There just may be a couple you hadn't thought of asking. Meanwhile have a good rest if you can, and my thoughts are with you. Diane

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Emily7 in reply to DianeArnold

Thanks v much Diane. I will email you x

So sorry to hear this. sending you hugs x

So sorry to read this Emily. Look after yourself. X

So sorry to hear that, look after yourself xx

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Emily7 in reply to

Thanks v much Button. Great news that you have got a faint line xx

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CountryCat

Very sorry to read this xx You are very courageous and I wish you much strength now and in the coming weeks.

Sorry too hear that - sending big hugs x

Sorry to hear this Emily, ask lots of questions at your review and hopefully they will have learned a lot from 1st cycle so next time its better. Lots of love xx

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beauty1984

I'm so sorry to hear this Emily, my first ivf cycle failed and it's so heart breaking. Just look after yourself and take all the time you need to get through this difficult time. Stay strong and take care xx

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anna0908

Sorry to hear this. Bfn's are so hard. You will pick yourself up again and hopefully next time will be your time xx

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Sprinkles86

Hi Emily are you still taking the progesterone? Only asking as I bled a lot during our first cycle (day 5 & 6) but did get a BFP! We did go on to miscarry later but I've other problems going on which may have caused this xxx

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Emily7 in reply to Sprinkles86

Hi Sprinkle

Yes still on progesterone as couldn't get hold of my clinic today. That's good to hear but my GP said it's pretty unlikely I will be pregnant.xxx

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Emily7 in reply to Sprinkles86

PS really hope you get BFP xxx

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Hannah143

So sorry to read your news Emily7, yes it's sad times for you but I feel your strength already looking forward and thinking about your next cycle. Be strong 💪 xxx

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Emily7 in reply to Hannah143

Thanks Hannah. 💪indeed. Sorry about your IVF cycle not working but great that you have 3 frozen embies in Barcelona xxx

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Strawb86

Sending lots of love xxx

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Oakey80

Hi Emily7, so sorry to hear it was a bfn...they really suck. I got mine a week ago tomorrow but like you I've tried to see the positives...I'm raring to go for round 2 already. Bring it on! xx

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Emily7 in reply to Oakey80

Thanks Oakey. Best of luck for your round 2. That's great you can start round 2 in your next cycle. We are on the NHS and the waiting list for round 2 will be at least 6 months xx

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Oakey80 in reply to Emily7

Ah poop is that because it's a fresh cycle? We're on nhs but doing a frozen as we only get one fresh/one frozen in my postcode. If this don't work we'll be emptying the penny jar! xx

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Tugsgirl

😞 x

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72cloud9

So sorry x big hugs xxx

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Sparklyfuture

Sorry to hear this 😔 hopefully they will know how to tweak your plan next time to make it happen. What a rollercoaster.

It's so hard when the NHS dictate everything for you, you're out of control as it is with this journey, making you wait 6 months if you didn't want to wait that long for r2 is frustrating.

Hugs and positive thoughts xx

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hannahi

So sorry to hear this xx

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