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Hi ladies.

I had my fresh egg transfer on Wednesday and today (5 days after) I started bleeding.This is 23rd day of my cycle (usually is 32 days) and my period always starts with brown spotting (sorry).Today is just red blood...I felt really sad and emotional today...is this over for me already??😭 I also did pregnancy test but is BFN.

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Maybe, maybe not. Lots of people bleed and get bfp you’re still early into the 2ww. From my experience if you continue to bleed it looks less promising but that’s just because that was what happened when I m/c.

It’s not game over till the fat lady sings πŸ˜‰

Hope you’ll be ok xxxx

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Pauleenka86β€’ in reply todrinathan

Thank you hun.My due date for test is Sunday which will be 11 days.My heart is telling me it's done...xx

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Becca21

You've had an FET, so it's hard to conclude yet that if what you've had really means a gave over or not. Maybe, but maybe not. Most of the time a bleeding end up being an AF but there's exception too. I've had several BFNs in FET and would still say you can't be 100% sure.... can certainly look less promising though. How intense if the flow... is it like your regular AF or just a bit of it? It's just 5 days post FET so it can be real early for a BFP to show up on HPT even if there's a slightest chance that you could end up pregnant. I know it's hard to stay sane n cope.... but that's what you should do right now... till it's a sure BFN. If there's any hope that's in your staying stable emotionally and giving the best to the embie to latch. Find hope n stay optimistic... I'll pray everything else goes positive and end all good.

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Pauleenka86β€’ in reply toBecca21

It's not like AF butbit scared me cos it's pure red not like a usual period.I have only 6 days left to wait so I will try and stay positive xxx

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Becca21β€’ in reply toPauleenka86

Oh... at least it's not like an AF .... so there's way more hope. Just like the PP said some women bleed in early 2ww and still end up getting pregnant. As long as your bledding is only spotting or very light flow there's not end of game yet. Well, I haven't had that personally but then everyone says so. How long has it been since you spotted it? Is it still there or stopped after a while? I don't think so fresh blood should be a concern. Just wait and be hopeful for now, because you breaking down emotionally now could do some major damage... that's what my clinic tells me. Oh and over my last FET they asked me not to POAS strictly just to cut out chances of emotional turmoil.

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Pauleenka86β€’ in reply toBecca21

It stopped so I hope there won't be anything there in the morning.I have a lot of time off from work so I'm very relaxed and trying to rest as much as I can.Will be testing Sunday morning now as will be away for a weekend break. Xxx

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kumkums

I would advice you contact your clinic asap. They might want to up your progesterone supplement.

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Pauleenka86β€’ in reply tokumkums

Hey.Im already on the highest dose of progesterone. Spotting stopped today but will try to call my clinic xx

I bled bright red blood after going for a short walk to the shops on my 2ww. I was put on bedrest and my progesterone was increased and it settled the same day. Call for advice but take it easy and rest. Good luck xxx

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Pauleenka86

I feel like I have a lot of bed rest (so bored already) and I'm on the highest progesterone.Spotting stopped today so fingers crossed xx

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Missy_22

I’m so sorry. No words I know how you feel xxx take care

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Pauleenka86

Thank you hun.Got 5 days left to do test so fingers crossed there will be a miracle xxx

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Loulav

How you doing im in my 2ww. Testing on Sunday. I see you took an early test. Have you done another since? Hope your ok x

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Pauleenka86β€’ in reply toLoulav

Hey.I know I remember hun.I took 3 in total all BFN.Im bleeding since Monday (It's heavy now).So I just know it didn't work.How are you?How you feeling ?xxx

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Loulavβ€’ in reply toPauleenka86

Oh bless you. Thats awful news. No point in me asking how you are 😒

Im ok i think. Being having a little bit of spotting. Soooo tempted to do a test but I'll wait till Sunday x

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Pauleenka86β€’ in reply toLoulav

Oh you did so well hun so wait 2 more days.Spotting is good. Fingers crossed for you lovely xxxx

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