Second IVF, twin pregnancy. Lost twin at ten weeks. Pregnancy was horrendous lots of bleeding from 14 weeks. Sadly went into labour and waters broke at home.
Long labour 26 hours, then my princess arrived and she was perfect but sleeping.
This journey is incredibly hard and painful but we will keep going in time.
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So so sorry for your huge loss xx
Oh gosh Missy, I am so deeply sorry for your loss. No one can know the utter heartbreak of what you have gone through unless they experience it but please know you are not alone and we are all here to support you.
You're clearly an incredibly strong, brave woman and those qualities will carry you through this to hopefully a happy destination in the end.
For now though hun, maybe take some time out for you and your partner to heal. Be kind and gentle to yourselves, accept whatever help works best for you be that counselling, making a memorial or something else until this dark cloud passes and you feel the sun once more.
You will get there my lovely and you're a mother now and always and your angel will be shining down on you with love.
Warmest hugs and love to you. Xxx
Thank you. That was so sweet. We have a funeral planned for the 31st. this experience is so painful xxx kind support from here helps
I can only imagine how very painful this experience is for you and am sending thoughts of strength to help you get through it.
I'm glad that you're able to have a funeral as though it will no doubt be an incredibly hard day for you, it will hopefully also commemorate your babies time with you and help you process your grief.
Lots of love to you at this sad time xxx
Sending you so much love what a devastating loss. Xxx
Oh Im so sorry to hear of your incredibly sad loss, so heartbreaking! Sending you big hugs!xx
Oh gosh I'm so so sorry to hear this, how dreadful for you 😢I doubt there's much that anyone can say at a time like this but sending you huge hugs xxx
I'm so sorry missy. Sending hugs your way. Take care xxxxxx
Life is just so cruel and senseless sometimes...I am SO sorry for your pain and the loss of your precious babies. I hope your grieving heart will heal in time xx
My heart is breaking for you my lovely, I'm so so sorry to hear of your loss, thinking of you and sending you lots of love xxxx
There are no words, my deepest sympathy for your loss, you're in my thoughts xxx
So sorry for your loss, words fail me. I am utterly sorry 
Tearful. Very sorry for your loss. X
So very sorry for your loss xx
This is utterly devestating news. Thinking of you and your family xxx
O missy_22 words cannot even start to describe the hurt and pain you and your partner must be in right now. This is truly awful for you and to experience two losses in the same pregnancy 😭
Thinking of you at this horrible time and praying that the next coming months will be kind you. Sending lots of love xxx
My heart breaks for you reading this, thinking of you at this sad time xxx
My heart goes out to you, I know exactly how you feel. RIP LITTLE angels 👼🏻 👼🏻😢💋🔮🔮🔮🔮🔮🔮 time is out best friend.... one day at a time... huge hug 🙌🏼🤗🙏🏼
I'm so so sorry to hear this missy, bless your angels and all the best for the future xx
So sorry to hear of your loss, big hugs 🤗 xx
So so so sorry to read this news. We are all here to help & support, there are just enough words to even start thinking about what you must be going through. I hope and pray that you continue to have the strength you have shown this far. Wishing you all the very best with whatever steps you continue to rage in your journey.
Sending love and many thoughts of healing your way.xx
So incredibly sorry for your loss. You are clearly a very brave person. Thinking of you xxx
My heart goes out to missy such heartbreaking news im so sorry for your loss xxx
Oh Missy, I have nothing to say that will even start to comfort you at this devastating time, I just wanted to let you know how sorry I am to read this and that my thoughts are with you. Take the time you need to grieve and look after yourself. Xx
Ah sweetheart, I'm so sorry to read your news. Sending you so much love and hugs, the world is so cruel and so unforgiving at times and you have been through so much. May your princesses be at peace together 🕊💜 xx
Lots of love and hugs and a huge helping of strength to help you just a small amount. Thinking of you x
This is just horrendous, my heart goes out to you. What a painful and cruel loss. I am so sorry. xx
Oh no 😭 My heart breaks for you. I hope they are playing happily together in heaven ❤️ Xxx
So sorry for your loss, take care of yourselfs .
Sending huge hugs xx
I'm so sorry to hear this and actually lost for words. I cannot imagine what you're going through after losing both of your twins, but wanted to tell you that we are all here for you and I hope and pray you'll get through this. You have your angel always in your heart ❤️ xoxo
So so sorry for your loss xxxxxx
Missy.. Am so so sorry to read of your loss to both babies... My heart breaks for you... Sending huge hugs and strength to get through ahead of you..
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Gentle hugs. You are a strong woman xxx
Sorry to here of your loss xx
Oh my goodness I am so very sorry to read this. Totally heartbreaking. My thoughts are with you at this incredibly sad and difficult time.
Take time to grieve with loved ones. Be kind to yourselves and I hope that you have been given information on support networks for you both.
Sending you a massive hug
xxxx
Devastated for you!! I am so deeply sorry for your terrible losses. U sound incredibly strong. I wish u and your partner all the best during this difficult time xxx
Oh missy I am so sad to read this. I have followed your story since the first IVF as we did it at the same time. I was so happy to hear you were pregnant so I am really sorry to hear of your terrible loss.
You are so strong. You deserve all the happiness in the world.
I hope that your miracle comes when you are ready to try again.
X
Thank you spongy.
I can't believe it, never did I think doing this journey I would be organising my own daughters funeral. I know it can happen but being over half way I thought we had done it.
Next time I will not get excited like this time.
Seeing fertility consultant tomorrow to discuss how long we leave it. This will help me, although I can never replace my princess.
Thank you for your support xxxx
There are no words. I'm so sorry for your loss x
Missy my heart is breaking for you and your partner, I cannot imagine what you are going through right now. Life is just so senseless and cruel. Please know we are all thinking of you and sending you all our strength and best wishes xxxxxx
I am so so sorry my lovely sending u massive hugs X we lost our little boy at 36 weeks born a sleeping Angel too. 2016 was the worse year of our lives, it's a really tough horrendous journey of grief I won't lie but it gets easier with time. It never leaves u but u learn to cope better after some time. Meanwhile do whatever u need to to get through it. Counselling really helped us. Talk about it, esp to each other, it can easily tear u apart but by talking lots it keeps u together. Men don't talk about it they need encouraging. You might grieve in different ways and not understand each other's way of grieving, accept the differences but talk it through together to understand how each other are feeling.
Escape if u need to, we did X
The funeral was hard but we put lots into organising it and felt we had done him proud.., but everyone is different, do what feels right for u.
The SANDS forum is a great place for support too, I am in close contact with some amazing women through that forum and we support each other through it X
Take care of yourself and be gentle with each other lots of love xx
Thank you bumpwanted!
I'm so sorry for your loss your message really touched me.
The grief is so raw right as it's only been one week. She should of been 24 weeks today and I'm a mess.
we are talking a lot and my husband has been amazing. We are planning a very quiet funeral but making some special touches like balloons and doves to send off. I will do her proud.
Found out yesterday they found the other twin in the placenta so we are able to collect that little one and place her with princess. Least they can be together again.
I have been on sands website and I will call again today. I will attend the next meeting in April.
I have no idea when I can go back to work, as I'm a health visitor it's going to painful working with families and babies again. We have a five day break after the funeral to Spain.
Getting back to normality just seems so hard: I know it's time and it's too early yet.
Thank you for being so supportive
Xxxxxxx
I am in tears reading this, what a traumatic time for you both. Take solice in each other and give yourselves time to heal. I'll light a candle for you both and your beautiful little angels. Wishing you all the best xxx
Oh I am so sorry to read this. Absolutely heartbreaking for you and your partner. I imagine no words will comfort you. Look after yourselves - thinking of you xxx
Thank you to you all for being supportive at this sad time. Us women are truly amazing take care to you all xxxxx 💗
Xxxxxx no words so sorry
Missy_22 , I'm soooo sorry to be reading this, my heart goes out to you. I can't imagine what you must be going though, but I'm sending you a massive hug look after yourself lovely. Xxxx
There r no words that I can say to express how I feel. And to b honest there's nothing which can take ur pain away . One day it will happen is d only hope that keeps us all going . 🙏🙏🙏🙏 Hope and pray d almighty gives u strength to get through this difficult time .
We made it to 20 weeks 😊
Spotting at 6 weeks 
Missed Miscarriage after IVF
Bleeding at 9 weeks 
Cramps at 9 weeks
