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*sensitive post * Little angel born sleeping at 21+6 weeks 💔

Our beautiful little girl Ebony Rose was born last night after I contracted sepsis from a womb infection which started early labour. Sadly we were made aware that she wouldn’t survive due to her age and the infection she’d been in and I was so poorly, they couldn’t leave me in labour any longer and had to induce me to make me give birth. We are in love with our perfect little angel and completely heartbroken. I’ve had so much loss previously, but never felt this pain before, maybe as I’ve never met my little one. The hospital have been amazing and we are spending as much time with our baby as we can. She was too perfect for such a cruel world 😢💔 xX

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All words seem too little at a moment like this....sending you love xo

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Clover I’m just so so sorry for your loss. Sending lots of love and cuddles your way xxxx

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I’m so so sorry, that is devastating. The name you have given your daughter is beautiful. I’ll be thinking of you xx

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There are just no words but I’m so sorry. Thinking of you x

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I'm so sorry for your loss. 😢😢😢

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I’m so sorry. Xxx

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May she rest in peace. Look after each other. I'm so so sorry for your loss x

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So sorry for your loss xx

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I am so sorry Hun. No words can make things better but I am thinking of you. You chose a gorgeous name for a gorgeous little girl ❤️ xx

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Gosh how heartbreaking- I am so sorry(!)

Pray you have some time with her xxx

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Can only imagine your pain I wish there were adequate words to help just hope you spend the time you need with your little girl and have lots of love around you x

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Xxxxx

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You’re in my thoughts, I’m so very sorry 😞 xxx

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💔 I’m so sorry 😢

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I'm so sorry for your loss. Sending love and hugs xx

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I’m so sorry for your loss - I’m was so incredibly sad reading your post. I’ll keep you in my prayers all night that you both get through this pain. ❤️ Xxx

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Nothing I can say will make it better, but I’m so so sorry xx

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I am so sorry to hear this. My thoughts are with you and your family xx

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I am so sorry to read this 😞❤️xxx

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My heart breaks for you. I’m so sorry to be reading this ❤️ Xxx

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I have no words that can possibly comfort you 😢

How unfair... I’m so so sorry for your loss.

Sending love xxx

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Really sorry for your loss. No words... thinking of you. X

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So sorry. Big hugs sent.xx

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Hi Clover. My darling, I am so sorry that this has happened to you, and I hope you have lots of love and support around you just now. You have obviously been extremely poorly, so I hope everyone is taking great care of you and your body soon is strong again. Spend time with her for as long as you can, before you have to say goodbye. A similar thing happened to me many years ago when I lost my handsome boy, but they’re never forgotten, and little Ebony Rose will be in your hearts forever. Much love - Diane xx

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Thank you Diane. We’ve had so much love and support and the hospital can’t do enough for us. I’m having to say in anyway but they’ve put us in a room where my partner can stay and we have Ebony with us aswell. We’ve taken hand and foot prints from her and given her a bath and dressed her in some little hand made clothes they provided, so we’ve special memories to cherish forever. I’m so sorry you’ve also been through this ❤️ It’s more painful than you can ever explain isn’t it and I’m not sure we’ll ever get over this 💔 xX

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Hi Clover. So pleased to hear you have been able to care for your beautiful little Ebony. It will mean so much to you both and will form some pleasant memories after the terrible hurt you’re going through. She will always be with you, and no, it stays with you what has happened, so I just hope you both can soon find some peace. I shall be thinking of you. Much love. Diane xx

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Thank you Diane ❤️ XX

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I am so sorry. This is very emotional. It's very nice of the clinic that they are letting you spend time with her. I hope things get better. All my prayers are with you. Stay strong! I know this time must be very hard for you. All my prayers are with you.

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Oh my lovely I am so sad to read your post. I don’t know what to say but wanted so sendvyiy all a huge hug xxx

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I am so, so sorry to read this. It’s heartbreaking what you are going through.

Sending you big hugs 💕 xx

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I’m so sorry for your loss x x

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I have so words!💔 Sending love to you all!xxxx

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There are no words I can say - your daughter has a beautiful name and a wonderful mummy. I am glad you are able to hold her and that the hospital are being kind and supportive xxx

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So so sorry to hear this 💔 sending lots of love xx

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Heart breaking, sending you Iove and hugs - so sorry xx

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So so sorry for your loss. I hope you find your strength to heal. Xxx

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I'm speechless but no words will help you. Huge hug xx

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I am so sad to read your post. No words that I write can even begin to help. I am keeping you in my thoughts and prayers. What a beautiful name for your little girl. xxx

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I have no word to say any thing but will keep you and beautiful angle in my prayers

Hug hug hug xxxxx

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I’m so sorry for your loss xxx

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So sorry for your loss xx

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My heart breaks for you, xxxxxx

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RIP Ebony Rose 💗. My heart breaks for you Clover5. So sorry for your loss xx

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I feel so sad reading this. I am really sorry for your loss. Praying that you will find the grace to get through this and that you will physically recover too. May you know that you are being thought about and prayed for. Sending you a warm hug.xo

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:-( I’m so sorry xxx Thinking of you and your husband xxx

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So very very sorry. Dreadfully unfair and heartbreaking for you. You are in my thoughts xx

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There are no words other than I am so so sorry for your loss. You are in my thoughts. 💔

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Oh my, this is just sooo tragic 😢 I wish there was something I could say to ease your pain. Sepsis is such a dangerous infection and to have the fear of that and loose your baby is just so heartbreaking. Sending you so much love and strength for the days/weeks/months ahead xx

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I’m so so sorry Hun for your loss 😔😔😔 I cannot find the “right” words to make u feel better....I don’t think there is any ...at least for now ....😔😔 I know that my not be now in your mind but there is song ....is about someone that lost his unborn baby ...is the words in that song that will maybe will make u feel better . The song called “ good people”..empire. Xxx sending u lots of love Hun

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Thank you ❤️ I’ll see if I can find the song xx

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I'm so sorry to read this. It must be totally heart breaking. Sending you hugs xx

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So very sorry for your loss😥 God please give you peace of mind and take care of your little angel xxx

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I’m so so sorry for your loss, very sad news to read, cannot imagine how you must be feeling xxx

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There are no words. Sending love 💕

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Oh my goodness, how cruel. Sending you huge hugs xx

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Take it 1 minute at a time. That’s what our midwives advised us xxx

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xxx

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I am so sorry from the bottom of my heart 💔 xxx

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I am so sorry 😥 this is truly heartbreaking! Thoughts are with you both xxx

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I am so sorry for your loss. This world is so cruel sometimes. Sending all my love xxx

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I am so sorry to hear of your loss , Sending you love. Xx

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I'm so sorry for your loss, thinking of you 💗

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So sorry for your loss hun loads of love and hugs 💗

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Oh sweetheart. I’m so sorry 💕

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I’m so very sorry for your loss, you’re in my thoughts 💗

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Clover.....I just don’t know what to say......no words 😢 💔 so so so sorry.

I was going to check in with you to see how you were doing.

Life is so very cruel. I really hope you and your partner get through this extremely hard time together.

I’m thinking of you sweetie.

Take care 😘 xxxx

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I’m so sorry for your loss.. Thinking of you xxx

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I’m so very sorry. It is a cruel world. Sending my very deepest sympathies. xxx

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I'm so sorry, sending lots of love to you both during this difficult time xxxx

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Peace and love

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I'm so sorry for your loss. X

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I’m really sorry for your loss, I cannot imagine what you are going through. My thoughts are with you at this difficult time xoxo

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...l am. So sorry......heartfelt condolences to you both.

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Am so heart 💔 by your loss.. May Almighty give you strength to carry this huge load of missing an angel.... She'll back to you soon I know... She will lighten up your life again, I pray ... 🤞🤞

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I am so very sorry for your loss. Thinking of you xx

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💔 so sorry for your loss, I can’t imagine how you, ur partner and family must be feeling right now. Stay strong for each other xx

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Oh clover5! I am so sorry for your loss. I can’t wven imagine how you must feel right now. Sending so much love to you, your family and Ebony Rose.x

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Oh no I am deeply sorry for your loss 😢xx

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Oh my gosh I’m so so sorry. Thinking of you xx

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I am so sorry to hear of your loss. I too have an angel baby. Ella-Rose was born sleeping on 4th July 2016 at 26 weeks. She had no heartbeat. I had patches of placenta not working . She was my 2nd IVF.

I have taken lots of pictures to remember her & my husband & I joined a local support group called Tigerlily.

If you need to chat ... i’m Here for you . Ebony- Rose is a beautiful name xxx big big hugs xxxx

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Thank you Hun and I’m so sorry to hear of your little angel ❤️. We’ve taken lots of pics and the medical photographer came and took some of Ebony with us today. We are so pleased with the memories we get to take away with us, but nothing will be enough. I’m just broken 💔 xX

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💔😥 no words xx

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Sending you love. Xxx

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So very sorry. Sending you and your family so much love 💛 xxx

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Sending you love and hugs at this difficult time- what a beautiful name for a beautiful angel. X

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I am so so sorry for you both. Sending love xxxx

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I’m with you. Xxx

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I’m so very sorry for your loss. Sending you loads of love xxx

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So sorry. Big hugs. Xxxx

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Thinking of you. X

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You are in my prayers. I’m so sorry x

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I'm so sorry for your loss.x

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Thinking of you both xx

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Thinking of you I am so sorry for your loss, sending you so so much love xxxx

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There are absolutely no words. Thinking of you all at this time 💕 xx

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May Ebony Rose’s beautiful soul rest in perfect peace ♥️ I also pray that you and your husband manage to come to terms with this and find some sort of peace in the midst of your sadness and loss xxx

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So sorry to hear this. Look after yourself x

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I'm so sorry for your loss. Thinking of you at this very difficult time. Wishing you a speedy recovery xx

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I am so sorry for your loss. Sending love and hugs and you and your angel are in my thoughts.xxx

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I am so very sorry for your loss, I cannot begin to imagine what you and your family are going through, may Ebony Rose rest in peace xx

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So sorry. Can’t even imagine what you’re going through. Glad you’re getting some time as a family with your little girl. Take care of yourselves xx

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I have no words, I’m so sorry you are suffering. Sending you lots of love xx

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I’m so very, very sorry xxx

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Reading your post bought tears in my eyes and thinking about you. So sorry for your loss. 😢

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Giving you an enourmous hug, I’m heartbroken for you❤️

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Absolutely no words my dear .

Xoxo

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I’m so sorry, this is absolutely devastating.

Sending lots of hugs your way xx

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So sorry to hear your sad news, thinking about you and your family at this time. Hoping that you are also in the road to recovery. Take care x

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I am so so very sorry for the loss of your daughter Ebony Rose. Such a beautiful name for your daughter and I hope you get to cuddle your angel lots and find some peace in those moments, if that's possible. My condolences. x

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I'm so so sorry to read this. Sending love to you xx

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I am so sorry. She was clearly born with her wings ready. I'm sure she will be looking over you xx

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So sad and so cruel..sorry to read this x

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This is so unfair...I’m so sorry this has happened to you. Hope you have lots of support 💕xxx

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I’m overwhelmed with everyone’s kind words of love & support 💕 I’m still in hospital and will be for a few more days, but we are pleased to be spending the time with Ebony. We have a service arranged for next Tuesday to have her cremated. I’m not sure I’ll ever be ready to say goodbye, but we are taking as many memories as we can get. Thank you for all your lovely messages ❤️ XX

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I’m so very sorry for your loss. Thinking of you at this difficult time xx

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Aww I’m so sorry to hear this 😘💕

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Oh Clover, I am beyond sorry for your cruel, cruel loss. Words are not enough at a time like this. I send you my prayers and lots of love xxxxxx

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I’m so sorry x

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I’m so sorry Clover. Sending love to you and your angel xxx

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So sorry 💕💕💕 xx

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Heartbreaking, sorry for your loss. Thinking of you 💕

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I wish there was something I can say to take your pain away. This is truly heart breaking, you are in my thoughts, sending you so much love x x

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So sorry to see this. I can't imagine the heartache and pain. Sending love 😘💕💖

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My thoughts are with you xxx

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