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Obsessing! Poas too early?

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BabyChill
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Bfn day 6, 7 and 8 which is today. Otd is not until Tuesday day 11.

Second cycle, 1st cycle had bfp by this stage however couple of weeks later bfn therefore that didn't go anywhere.

Yesterday cramping and pink spots. Today little cramping and sore boobs.

Am I too soon testing really???

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The other day lady poas was negative 2 days later was positive u just never know. I did same thing but for me it was a bfn.

Try wait til Tuesday

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BabyChillโ€ข in reply to

Thank you, I just can't get it off my mind when I wake and need to pee x

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bfrida

Just give it a time, do not hurry. The nature needs a time for the whole process. Everything will be ok. I was like you. It's all because we failed 4 cycles of ivf.

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BabyChillโ€ข in reply tobfrida

The tww is unreal! The slowest two weeks ever. Holidays never go this slow. I'm excited one minute and feeling down the next. Such a rollercoaster already x

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bfridaโ€ข in reply toBabyChill

don't worry. try ro relax and make your mind thing about your family, your husband. make a dinner for him, with the candles and a fresh juice, because you are not allowed to drink any alcohol. do you have any hobby? it can be a good way for you.

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BabyChillโ€ข in reply tobfrida

Well I have a litter of puppies that keep my so busy all day but when I'm in bed it's all I can think about xx

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bfridaโ€ข in reply toBabyChill

what kind of puppies? are they very small? I love puppies too.

And what about your husband? How's he right now? Do you feel his support and care, do you spend a time with him? Or you care only about puppies?

One more day left, try to keep yourself positive. we are with you.

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BabyChillโ€ข in reply tobfrida

I can't do it, I can't sleep, when I do I keep dreaming about positive tests.

Did another one today and still bfn. Otd tmomkttow and I can't see that being any different.

I have English Bulldog pups.

6 weeks old now. My husband works away, haven't felt very supported recently but he was home all weekend and looked after me the whole time x

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bfridaโ€ข in reply toBabyChill

oh, the same situation. my husband was always at work. he had a serious project, so he hadn't free time for me.

sorry you have bfn, don't give up. we also failed 4 cycles of ivf. and I can't express my feeiling at that time. tons of cries, a devastation and hopeless life. but we made our beat and decided to give us a chance to be parents. in Wednesday we will go to ukraine for a first consultation. we want to undergo the de treatment.

wow, so cute, are they all will live with you? do you take parts in any dog shows?

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Nesfin

I personally convinced myself that only morning pee would be strong enough to give me a positive result (hence avoiding the urge to test any other time), hid away the pregnancy tests, and then just rushed to the toilet last minute in the morning.. I was about to burst and didn't have time to get the test out and so "missed the opportunity" to test until next morning lol! ๐Ÿ˜‚ I kept on doing this every morning.. but if you cannot at least remember that you are unlikely to get a positive result now even with the best of tests, it is too early xoxo

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Tugsgirl

I'm not even in the tww yet (fet transfer on Wednesday) but after my first bfn I'm already frightened to think it's going to work this time. I won't test until the official test date though, I didn't last time. If you get an early bfn that changes to a bfp on test date, well I couldn't put myself through the bfns beforehand.. I think anyone that tests early is brave but it's not for me. Good luck ๐Ÿ€ I hope you get your bfp by Tuesday x

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72cloud9

I'm just hanging on for my blood test,I'm not gonna even pee on a stick.i don't know where I got this will power from cos I never had it b4!!

It probably is too early tho Hun, try & wait it out x

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Beanme

Fingers crossed for BFP xxx on Tues

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BabyChillโ€ข in reply toBeanme

Thanks so much xx

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MommaBear16

Still a tad too early I think! A couple mile days can make all the difference, stay strong!!! x x x

I tested on day 8 when my test day was day 11 and got BFP. I still didn't believe it and drove myself mad for two days so should of waited really but like you I had cramping so was convinced it hadn't worked and couldn't wait. I'm so inpatient so I don't think I could have waited and I probably will do the same next time xx

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