Bfn again 😢

[anna0908]

3rd cycle, 4th embryo transfer, same result everytime. My body just doesn't seem to know how to get pregnant. Loosing hope. This was meant to be our final attempt but the pain I feel of our chances being over is just too much. Why does it have to be this hard. Will pick ourselves up again and figure out where we go from here. X

[Diamonddream]

Oh Anna0908 I'm so sorry to hear that.

This process is so hard, I'm sending you love and hugs and I wish you all the best for the future 💗💗🍀🍀 xx

[Tugsgirl]

It's heartbreaking. Sorry to read this x

[Sam101]

Sorry to hear your sad news anna0908. It does leave you feeling empty when you keep getting the same result everytime, i know from experience. I found it worse when nobody could give you a reason why. I hope over time with the support of your husband and family you can start to plan your future and things will staŕt looking brighter for you. Take care. Dont forget vent your anger if you need to dont keep it pent up inside. Sending you lots of hugs and love xx

[Kloulou83]

I'm so sorry to hear this 😔 I can't even imagine how you must be feeling after all of this time. Try not to give up, it will happen one day 🤞🏼🤞🏼 Xx

[sophia88]

So sorry to hear this Anna I know exactly what your going through. Look after yourself. xx

[Hidden]

So sorry to hear this news anna! Sending lots of love and hugs to you both x

[bethany2]

Oh honey! I am so so so so so sorry!

I cannot express my feelings right now, I really wish you to have BFP to just put an end to all of those attempts!

Maybe, just maybe you should just rest a bit. not only physically but also from all of those thoughts, of the desire of having a baby. I know it sounds impossible as I am sure this desire is everything for you but maybe you give it a try? Just a small advice from me

And do not forget there are still some options and chances may not be perfect but the hope is still alive!

xx

[pm27]

I'm really sorry. I couldn't face any more after our 3rd Round & 3rd BFN. Only you know if you can go through it all again but you don't need to rush your decision. Take some time to recover from your disappointment and attend your follow up. Ask if there is anything else they can suggest to improve your chances of success. Sadly many of us don't get that elusive BFP.

[katya38]

So so sorry to hear this Anna. It just seems so unfair doesn't it. As others have said you ll know when you're ready to try again or if you want to. I feel I've found my peace now we ve been approved for adoption xx

[Hidden]

So sorry to hear this, look after yourselves xxx

[Beebeestar]

I'm so sorry Anna.... my heart breaks for you and I hope you can find comfort soon.

[Buffy21]

Sending love and all my thoughts to you. It's very hard to make sense if it all. Can the medical profession give some answers?xx

[girl15]

Stay positive. Best of luck xx

[Sassa1234]

Oh anna, sorry to hear that.

You must be a strong couple esp you to go through this 4 times. I got a bfn on my first cycle got no frozen which is devastating but wondering how you could go through this 4 times,

Just keep fighting, we started this journey which needs both strength and patience.

Have a break and try to focus on your relationship with your husband ( fresh air) then carry on your journey.

Good luck in the future.

[72cloud9]

Oh Hun I'm so sorry to hear this.gutted for u. Don't make any decisions this moment, u need to give yourself some time to process, look after yourself and then assess the situation.

Easier said than done I know.

Sending u big hugs xxx

[ch319]

Oh god reading this breaks my heart for you. Life can be so cruel sometimes. There are just no words to comfort you at the moment. Please keep us all updated xx

[CountryCat]

This made me very sad to read! I am so sorry after everything you have been through, you don't have that magic result.

There are many people who would not have even made it so far, so I hope you won't think I am being patronising to say that you have the strength of a lion and like a lot of the ladies on here, the (brave) heart of one too!

Wishing you brighter days ahead and many hugs!

[nicknick]

Hi, I am sorry to know it didn't work for you. I think you might see yr doc to discuss the reasons why you can't get pregnant. Have y thought on doing chromosome abnormalities screen? If genetics is the issue, docs might recommend doing pgs ngs to achieve a problem-free pregnancy

[sanj76]

I'm so so sorry to read this Anna, as they say time is a great healer but this at the best of times is hard to overcome I'm sure. I wish you all the strength and bravery to heal. Wishing all the very very very best in whatever you decide. Be proud of yourself that you dyed everything possuable.