Blood results and bfn

[Adele88]

Just received the phone call and got a bfn just wasnt ready for the news, the thought of having to start from scratch again

[katya38]

Oh no really sorry. It really is horrible. Take a few days to be kind to yourself. Think I ended up having to go out and get a bottle of wine and big bag of chocolate buttons.xx

[Datak]

Oh Adele, you can never really be prepared ... I'm so sorry. Ride the shock, cry ... do what you need to grieve it before you even think of the next steps. They will take care of themselves, you have proved yourself tough enough for to deal with that as it comes. For now, it's only ever the next minute you have to get through. Have a cup of tea, try not to let yourself think for a bit. Lots of love xxxxxxxx

[isitonlyadream]

Ohh Adele

So sorry to read this that's just awful news. When our fresh failed I knew before test day as I'd started to bleed whereas you haven't so the hope was still there, thats the hardest part, all rational thought goes out the window and hope kicks in.

I promise it gets easier but for now just take some you time and don't make any rash decisions just yet. The thought of starting over again is daunting so just take it a day at a time until your follow up appointment.

Big virtual hugs,

Holly x

[pm27]

I'm really sorry to hear you got a BFN. It isn't fair after everything we go through. Take lots of care of each other.

[Georgina78]

So sorry to read this Adele 😔 Perhaps take some time to be 'you' again without all the stress that comes with IVF before contemplating your next moves. Only you know what's right for you though.

I'm in another 2ww and trying to be positive but already super daunted by the thought of the whole process all over again. Life isn't fair is it. Big hugs xxx

[DianeArnold Partner Nurse Fertility Network UK]

Hi Adele88. So sorry to hear this. Nothing really to say and you are going to feel dreadful for a while. I just wondered whether you have thought of attending a support group if you already haven't done so. They can be surprisingly helpful at a time like this, and you will be with others who know and understand how raw you are feeling at the moment. There is a list of groups on our webite fertilitynetworkuk.org Thinking of you. Diane

[City74]

Really sorry to hear this. You must be very upset. Try and be kind to yourself as much as you can.

[Hidden]

BFN are rubbish. Big hugs and look after yourself xxx

[SueHutch]

Lots of hugs and love x

[Adele88]

Thank you everyone for your kind words,will take a break and save as only got one chance on nhs so have to pay next round xxx

[Kelly-03]

I am sorry to hear your news and I know it is very hard and we are all here to help.

Thinking of you.

Kelly xx