Hi all, I have been a bit quieter recently as I have been trying to live a life not solely focused on infertility, treatments or miscarriages. I was 8 weeks yday and have already had three scans which showed a heartbeat and measured to size. The reason I have had so many scans is that I have been spotting. Mostly brown gunk! Generally have spotted a little then it's stopped. First time it was accompanied by cramping the next time it wasn't. Today I woke up and was spotting again. But instead of stopping it's getting heavier and heavier. My scans at the EPU showed a haematoma beside where the baby is. My clinic were doom and gloom telling me that if it comes out it will take the baby with it. From our first EPU scan at 6+6 to our last one at 7+6 the baby had grown but so had the sak beside it. I called my EPU earlier today and got a sharp lady (all the other times they have been lovely) who basically said that unless it turns red or I get considerable pain then don't call back. But I am sitting here, alone, feeling like it's all over and I am powerless to stop it. How can it be right that we are left to stew like this? I know that there is nothing that they can do but this is just horrible.
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