Just thought I'd write this incase anyone has any advice or experience to share.
For those who don't know my story, 34yrs, 4yrs of unexplained infertility, 1st round ivf icsi 11 eggs but only one fertilised. Positive on test day - overjoyed!
Then 3.5 wks of period style bleeding, monitored with scans. 6 and 7wk scan showed fetus was small for age and heart rate was under 80bpm. Spent 2 weeks beings terrified every day what was going on.
2days ago had our 8wk5day scan, no heartbeat was found. Had a 2nd scan elsewhere which confirmed - heartbroken.
Was sent home with no info and told to wait another wk b4 I can speak to a nurse about miscarriage options. Did a bit of googling, undecided what to do. Am terrified of the process, how painful it might be, the risks, the shock and blood loss. Scared to leave the house incase it happens spontaneously. But also scared of operation incase it damages my womb.
Does anyone have any advice please Xx
Just wanted to say a big thank you to everyone who messaged, I would also usually reply to you each individually, but at the moment I'm finding it too upsetting to think about things in any detail. When I feel a bit stronger I will re-read all your messages and try to come to a decision.
Thanks again for your concern and help Xxx