*sensitive* UPDATE. 8 week scan tomorrow

[Rehsuh]

Hi all, I have an 8 week early scan at IvF clinic tomorrow. At my three previous 8 week scans I’ve had bad news every time and subsequently miscarried (either no heart beat or there was but baby was small and not likely to continue - no heartbeat the next time). I’m beside myself with anxiety tonight. This time it feels different as I’ve been horrendously sick and pretty much bed ridden for three weeks. Still terrified though. I guess I’ll update this tomorrow. Wish me luck 😓 love xx

Hi all- it was all good, baby had good heart beat and measured perfectly! Thought I was dreaming 😊 still early days but I hope this brings positivity to others in similar situations! Xx

[Lovemylion]

Good luck honey. Sounds like positive pregnancy symptoms you got there! I'm sure all will be well tomorrow. Get some rest and positive thoughts. Your little bean will be cooking nicely. Xxx

[Rehsuh in reply to Lovemylion]

Thanks so much 😊 xx

[Beanybeanz]

Good luck 🤞😊 xx

[Rehsuh in reply to Beanybeanz]

Thank you 😊 x

[Vicster80]

Good luck!! I have a similar track record with scans but my last scan- first in this pregnancy- bucked that trend. Hoping the same for you, and it sounds like you have some reassuring symptoms there xx

[Rehsuh in reply to Vicster80]

Thanks v much Vicster and big congrats to you on your scan. Wishing you al best for the rest xx

[Jonesy84]

Good luck lovely! I hope this sickness means baby is making themselves at home 🤞xx

[Rehsuh in reply to Jonesy84]

Thanks so much 👍🏻 🤞🏻😊 x

[Jonesy84 in reply to Rehsuh]

Yey so glad to read this! Hope your sickness eases for you soon and all the best for the rest of your pregnancy xx

[Rehsuh in reply to Jonesy84]

Thanks Jonesy! X

[LegoBatgirl]

Fingers crossed for you, good luck x

[Nala_01]

Good luck! Praying for you ❤️ I know how you feel, I’ve just got my bfp and after 2 miscarriages I’m terrified . Hopefully you’ll get some good news tomorrow xx

[Rehsuh in reply to Nala_01]

Thank you and best of luck to you too xx 💙

[Lots8788]

So sorry for your losses and all the best for tomorrow xxx

[Rehsuh in reply to Lots8788]

Thanks so much xx

[Hells18]

I hope ur everything goes ok for you fingers crossed I’m currently in hospital lost the baby at 6 weeks it’s devastating so really know how heartbreaking it is thinking of u xx

[Rehsuh in reply to Hells18]

Oh no I’m so sorry to hear this, sending love and thanks for good wishes xx

[Mellyboo111]

Good luck hun.

[Rehsuh in reply to Mellyboo111]

Thanks 😊

[Duchess2018]

Good luck and big hugs Xx

[Rehsuh in reply to Duchess2018]

Thank you 😊

[Cinderella5]

Wishing you so much luck, really hope you get good news!xx

[Rehsuh in reply to Cinderella5]

Thanks so much 💙

[Miracle43]

I know how you feel Rehsuh, wishing lots of luck xx

[Rehsuh in reply to Miracle43]

Thank you xx

[Beatrix_K]

Good luck lovely. xx

[Rehsuh in reply to Beatrix_K]

Thanks Beatrix xx

[Chasing123]

I’m sending all my positive thoughts to you!

[Rehsuh in reply to Chasing123]

Thanks v much ❤️

[Victoria1800]

My 8 week viability scan is today too and I'm a nervous wreck. I completely understand how you feel. My symptoms have been really on and off but I think mild. A few days where I feel OK and normal and the occasional day where I feel hungover. I had a few waves of nausea but brief and mild. I've been so worried as I've not felt pregnant enough. I do have constant heartburn though. I had a scan at 10 weeks last summer but the baby had stopped developing at 6 and no heart beat. I'm so scared and they won't let my partner come with me. I understand why but with people being allowed to get their haircut and pile into primark I thought my partner would be allowed. I really wish you all the best today xx

[Rehsuh in reply to Victoria1800]

Goodness me, very best of luck to you too and yes that seems mean not to let your partner in now. Yes you really analyse the symptoms don’t you - I’m comparing mine to how they were a week ago and wondering if they’re less severe and if that means something. Well best of luck and let me know if you want to xx

[Victoria1800 in reply to Rehsuh]

We really do torture ourselves. Lots of positive vibes for today x

[Victoria1800 in reply to Rehsuh]

I'm so super pleased for you. Been checking your posts to see your update. That is amazing and I wish you a full healthy pregnancy. My scan didn't work out but I will come back and try again. Very best wishes to you.

[Rehsuh in reply to Victoria1800]

I’m so sorry to hear that Victoria, that is really tough; you sound like you are being pragmatic about it and I’m glad you will be trying again. Keep me updated, and thanks for good wishes 💜😘 x

[Sparklylife]

Just wanted to wish you all the best for your scan today! Sending you a virtual hug 💛

[Rehsuh in reply to Sparklylife]

Thanks so much x

[Sparklylife in reply to Rehsuh]

So happy to read your update!! All the best 🥰

[Rehsuh in reply to Sparklylife]

Thanks 😊 xx

[Melspels]

Good luck 🤞🏻 😊

[Rehsuh in reply to Melspels]

Thank you x

[LauraEW]

Best of luck 🤞🤞 I’m in a very similar position, got my scan on Friday which should be 8wks6days - I’ve had 2 previous MMC’s at this point. It’s so tough isn’t it. Got all my fingers crossed for you xx

[Rehsuh in reply to LauraEW]

Thank you and for you too on Friday xx yes really tough. Feels like I can’t imagine lying in that scan position and her giving me good news xx will think of you on Friday x

[LauraEW in reply to Rehsuh]

So happy to read your update!! Enjoy this milestone 😊 huge congrats xx

[Social-Butterfly]

Wishing you all the luck in this world for you and your little miracle

[Rehsuh in reply to Social-Butterfly]

Thank you 😊 x

[Kasia83]

Good luck Rehsuh. Keeping my fingers crossed for you 😘

[Rehsuh in reply to Kasia83]

Thanks so much x

[Hidden]

Been there too but scans at 12w to find blighted or heart had stopped I was terrified to go alone at 6w but everything was fine then had a couple more private scans +nhs just to try to keep the anxiety down. I’m 33w now all going good. Good luck xx

[Rehsuh in reply to Hidden]

Great news and thanks for the hopefulness! Xx

[st1984]

The anxiety is awful. The same thing happened to me at the early scan 3 times as well. Always bad news. Fast forward to our last shot with our final embryo and finally good news after all that heartache. Little one is 4 months old now.

Good luck I hope for you it's 4th time lucky like it was for us. Also I understand about the scans I had to go alone and was petrified. I booked some private ones in between the nhs ones so husband could come.

Wishing you all the luck in the world, stay strong and try to be positive until told otherwise 🤞🏻🍀 xx

[Rehsuh in reply to st1984]

Thanks so much and what a lovely story - big congrats 👏🏻💜 x

[BroodySingle]

Good luck sweetheart. I can only imagine the anxiety you’re experiencing but keeping everything crossed for you that this time is THE time. Let us know how you get on xx

[Rehsuh in reply to BroodySingle]

Thanks 😊 so much and will do x

[Crazy_girl]

Here’s wishing you the very best, Rehsuh !

[Rehsuh in reply to Crazy_girl]

😊😘

[Green-elephants]

Lots of luck and positive vibes xxx

[Rehsuh]

😊👍🏻

[Vicster80]

Great news! So pleased for you xx

[Lindt83]

So happy to read this, congratulations! I felt so anxious at my 7 week scan too. As soon as you hear the heart beat, it all starts to feel so real. Try to stay positive and I'm sure everything will work out for you 🙂 xx

[Cinderella5]

Fantastic to see your update!!💖xx

[Peace-Lilly]

So delighted to read your second comment...huge congratulations! You have been through so much, I can totally relate to the anxiety xxx

[Rehsuh in reply to Peace-Lilly]

Thanks so much 😘 hope you have had/get a positive result too x

[Chelsea289]

Congratulations xx

[Rehsuh in reply to Chelsea289]

Thanks Chelsea x

[RhinoCat]

Super news about the update 😘💕🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻💐💐💐😘 Wishing you the best for the rest 💐

[Rehsuh in reply to RhinoCat]

Thanks so much 😊 x

[Kasia83]

Great to see your update Rehsuh ❤️