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Not had a very good day today ..... Had a big argument with my husband and cried loads ! I hope this hasn't affected anything ! Still in my 2 week wait :-(

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Aw... Hope you're okay Lillymini. The same thing happened while i was on my 2ww and I actually ended up quite stressed out. Our hormones are all over the place when we go through treatment which doesn't help either and I personally felt my partner didn't fully appreciate or understand what I was going through. He had such an easy time compared to what I had to go through. I'm here if you need to chat. That's the good thing about this forum you get fantastic support. Sending you & your wee embie a big virtual hug & lots of luv & luck 🌼💚🌼 x x x

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Lillymini in reply to noodles_

Your so sweet thank you so much for your kind words. I worked myself up so much I was crying and my heart was pumping like crazy. Feel like he is getting upset over stupid things.... I've been though so much we all have to be honest. Please pray my little embryo keeps 🙏🙏🙏

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noodles_ in reply to Lillymini

I know my partner finds it hard seeing me go through this tough journey and he told the counsellor he feels helpless at times. He doesn't express himself very well and I know for a fact he doesn't have babies on his mind 24/7 the way I do. One of the interesting things i learned from my first cycle of ivf is that my partner said to me i have to allow him to have an 'off' day, he said he can't be strong all the time he's only human. I've really tried to take this on board. This journey is so hard and puts a lot of pressure on your relationship but I do believe it makes you stronger as a person and strengthens your relationship.

I'm keeping everything crossed for you so keep me posted 💚x💛x

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Lillymini in reply to noodles_

Gosh how true is that ! I will definitely keep you posted thanks again xx

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