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Feeling drained

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Hi guys just had my 2nd transfer last Tuesday found out on Thursday there that it didn't work never been so heart broken in my life as this time i really thought it worked as my periods never came for the 1st time since 2010 when got told i couldn't have kids i had biggest smile on my face till went to the hospital and they told me you dont bleed on a thaw cycle just then i new it didnt work and yes i was so right i just dont how much more heart ache i can take n my family friends are lovely but dont understand at all saying u will be fine etc just need someone going through the same to talk to dont no if anything can help make it work and ino mite b sily but try not to run to tge toilet after transfer but so hard after drinking so much n they do say its fine xxxxx

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Karen82

Hi Lynsey86, I'm so sorry to hear this - my first ICSI hasn't worked either, I'm gutted. I don't have any wise words for you except to say that I know how you feel, it's a horrible horrible thing, and just so incredibly unfair. I hope you have the chance to try again (if you want to). K xx

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Sorry to hear that its such a hard time and u feel like giving up then blame yourself thinking was it something I done my family mean well but dont get it and friends some try to be there way they can and anothers say you will b fine in few days etc or say only if i could carry for u nice but again so hurtful thats why try speak to people going through the same as they definitely understand the heart ache 😟 when do you get another chance hun xxxxxx

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Karen82 just wondering if you no why i need to keep taking climaval and cyclogest think ive to take it for weeks maybe even months xxxxxx

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