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Today was test day and we got a negative result. We are completely devastated, the whole process from the beginning up till today has been perfect. We had 15 mature eggs and 11 fertilized then had day 5 blastocyst, i totally convinced myself it would be positive. Now just got to wait for a letter coming to go for a review xx

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Jazifox

I'm so sad for you, Jill

(((Hugs)))

xXx

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Littlemex in reply to Jazifox

So sorry to hear this :-( xx

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Sunnysarah01 in reply to Littlemex

I am soooo sorry to hear this x

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Soconfused07

So sorry nothing anyone can say can ease the pain xxx

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BluChakra

I'm so sorry. This happened to us to today as well. Everything went fine up til this point too. I knew things hadn't worked when I started to get my period a couple of days before though so I was lucky I felt more prepared for it to be negative. Nothing makes it any easier though xxx

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Melaineh

Sorry to hear that am also the same xx

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danielledavison

Hi I am sorry to hear of your news, did you get any to freeze x

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jillmooney

Thank you so much ladies for the comments, Danielledavison we have 1 frozen but having this failed attempt has made me loose confidence. xx

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Hope14 in reply to jillmooney

Please don't! We had an unsuccessful fresh cycle too and were devastated. 3 months later had a FET and got a positive result! We also had only one frozen,so there's always hope,just don't give up!xx

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Lisaandbilly

So sorry to hear that xxxxhope your ok xx

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P_willy

Hi jillmooney,

Sound like exactly the same as my cycle. Everything went perfectly 16 eggs collected, 10 fertilised, 3 made it to blastocyst and we had one put back in. The drs were so convinced it'd work they said they'd of put money on it.

At our follow up meeting he said maybe my immune system is stopping the pregnancy so suggested if we try again to use steroids or do an endometrium scrape... We cannot afford to try again and probably never will so I'm finding it very hard to accept this is it.

I do know how you feel, and it's so hard to deal with. Here if you wanna chat xx

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Maron007 in reply to P_willy

Hi P-willy

Just reading your post re immunes... Seems to be a problem for a lot of us, I have recently had intralipids day 7 of stims and others I have spoken to have had ivig to help keep those immune killer cells at bay. My first time so do not have anything to draw on, but reading lots of posts has made me think there needs to be a lot more testing carried out during the process. I hope you find a way to continue with ivf. x

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kc21

Been reading your posts and so gutted for u x even though you tested positive at home? I've been off the pill 2 years and ttc properly for 9 months. Other half had sperm test and only 1% morphology so just been referred and waiting for an appointment x I never imagined we would have any probs and now it's all I can think about x keep your chin up and think positive thoughts ! P's I've prob got to lose 3 stone too which adds to the pressure of it all

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Maron007

So sorry Jill, stay strong and don't give up, hopefully they will be able to give you some feedback as to why it did not work. Lol x

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Belle-7-

Awwwww my heart goes out to you. Hugs and lots do loving xxx

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mai5ie

I'm sorry to hear your news, I know how gutted you feel right now. Take care and just think you have one in the freezer which could be the one. Xxx

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nellynel

so sorry to hear your news.. don't give up..

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Melaineh

Hi mrs how u feeling up ur ok xx

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WeeMrsH

So sorry to hear this Jill. Stay strong and don't give up! Above all take care of yourself xx

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