Sensitive post first wedding anniversary with our baby

Hi hope everyone is as okay as can be I do try to follow what is happening with everyone.

I hope this doesn’t offend or upset anyone.

Today marks 8 years since we got married with the intention of starting a family little did we know how difficult it was going to be. Every anniversary killed me without a baby & kept saying maybe next year will be “our year” it was so sad our wedding anniversary was just a painful reminder of how we still were no closer.

I cannot believe it actually happened for us & we went out for our anniversary with our miracle baby.

I don’t know what the real point to my post is but I feel close to you all here I consider you my friends. I couldn’t have gotten through my journey without your support.

Miracles can happen & I wish you all your happy endings. xxx

[Macca13]

Congratulations your on your wedding anniversary May you both have many more to celebrate and also on your baby too. Xx

[Hidden in reply to Macca13]

Thank you lovely. How are you? xxx

[everhopeful83]

Lovely post Jess, happy anniversary to you both 🥰 xx

[Hidden in reply to everhopeful83]

Thank you. All the best with your pregnancy hope all goes smoothly xxx

[everhopeful83 in reply to Hidden]

Thank you so much xxx

[Emma04]

Such a lovely post, congratulations both on your Wedding anniversary and your beautiful baby xxxx

[Hidden in reply to Emma04]

Thank you. All the best with your pregnancy hope it goes smoothly xxx

[Solly-44]

Happy anniversary! What a brilliant little gift she is too! 💝

[Hidden in reply to Solly-44]

Thank you she is the best gift 😍 All the best with your transfer keeping everything crossed for you xxx

[tiger-cub]

Aawwwwww we totally get you . Congratulations Hun

All these women are our extended sisters. Every time I see a happy post I just pray one day I can write something nice too . Xx

[Hidden in reply to tiger-cub]

Thank you. There is an understanding here that people don’t get unless you’ve been through this. I would love to be seeing you a post happy news ❤️ I stay here as I feel close to Everyone & I want to see others get their happy ending 😊 xxx

[destiny121]

Ahhhh Jess😘😘totally understand this... how lovely.. I feel the same with bdays etc and won’t be too long until our 1st Christmas... 😊😊

[Hidden in reply to destiny121]

Thank you. Happy exciting times ahead for us good things come to those who wait hey ❤️xxx

[chickp]

I completely know what you mean! No one in real life has a clue. Hate birthdays and Christmases too. How amazing for you to have your family this year xxx

[Hidden in reply to chickp]

Thank you so grateful for our daughter. I hope your scan goes well today & gives you some reassurance all is well. No one understands this journey ( unless they’ve been through this) & no one understands how much more we will feel throughout our miracle pregnancy. I never managed to relax or breathe out until she had arrived. Sad isn’t it that this journey can rob the happiness of a pregnancy 😔 xxx

[Sunshineraye]

Lovely story. Thanks for sharing and giving us hope xx

[Hidden in reply to Sunshineraye]

Thank you 😊 I hope all is going well? xxx

[Sunshineraye in reply to Hidden]

Thank you, just waiting for my FET 🤞🏻 Xx

[Hidden in reply to Sunshineraye]

Keeping everything crossed for you xxx

[Gem2410]

This made me smile. Thank you for posting, and giving us all hope! Happy anniversary 😊 xx

[Hidden in reply to Gem2410]

Thank you very much. I hope all is going well ? xxx

[Gem2410 in reply to Hidden]

Yes thank you. Starting IVF soon 🤞 xx

[wildchild1989]

lovely post happy anniversary to you and your hubby hope you had a fab day with your baby xx

[Hidden in reply to wildchild1989]

Thank you. I hope you are doing well ? xxx

[Klndmr]

Happy anniversary! Hope life brings lots of joy, health, happiness and love each day of your life! 💗💗💗🥰🥰🥰🥰

[Hidden in reply to Klndmr]

Thank you😊 Good luck with your 2ww hope it doesn’t drag too much & it’s a BFP 👌 xxx

[baby2016]

Huge happy wedding anniversary Jess, and how very special that you get to spend this one with your beautiful baby, along with many many more! Xx

[Hidden in reply to baby2016]

Thank you so grateful for her she has mended our once broken hearts. Hope you are recovering well from the c section & your little boy is doing well? xxx

[Poppyhead]

That’s so lovely!!!! Happy anniversary!!!

[Hidden in reply to Poppyhead]

Thank you. I hope everything is going well with you? xxx

[Fingerscrossed38]

Aww that gives us hope as we also say each anniversary that hopefully there'll be three of us next year and it hasn't happened. Happy anniversary 💝

[Hidden in reply to Fingerscrossed38]

Thank you.Anniversaries are so tough all the best to you I really hope it will soon be the 3 of you. Keep going you’ll get there xxx

[Georgie17]

Happy anniversary. Your post gives me hope. I'm waiting for transfer 7 which is due in October and feel comfort that it can happen after many years and attempts so thank you. Xx

[Hidden in reply to Georgie17]

Thank you. Miracles do happen it’s really hard to have hope when this journey knocks you down but keep believing 😊Wishing you the best with your transfer hope it is the one to bring you your special baby. xxx

[crisps88]

Congratulations on this beautiful anniversary and lovely words of hope, positivity and celebration. These times are all the more poignant with your miracle. Enjoy xxxx

[Hidden in reply to crisps88]

Thank you I think we appreciate that bit more than those who haven’t had our struggles to become pregnant. I hope all is going well with your pregnancy & wish you the best with it xxx

[Dreamingofbaby]

Ahh that amazing for u both. Congrats hun. U deserve it. Xx

[Hidden in reply to Dreamingofbaby]

Thank you. I hope your 2ww is going well & truly hope it’s the cycle that gives you your much wanted & deserved baby xxx

[Dreamingofbaby in reply to Hidden]

Thank u Hun. Let’s hope it could be my time. We will see. Hope enjoying parenthood xx

[mimisquiz77]

Congratulations on you little miracle!!! It’s a wonderful news! Enjoy being a mum m. Take care xx

[Hidden in reply to mimisquiz77]

Thank you so glad you got your miracle baby too. Enjoy every moment with your precious baby xxx

[Debrakay1704]

what a lovely post, so happy for you all. xxxx

[Hidden in reply to Debrakay1704]

Thank you, I hope your pregnancy is going well I wish you the best with it xxx

[Hidden]

Congratulations! Lovely news! Every christmas/birthday etc....I used to make a wish for a baby when people asked me what I wanted and I’ll be celebrating my birthday with my 9week old baby boy this sat. X

[Hidden in reply to Hidden]

Thank you. And I’m so happy that you got your special baby. Oh & happy birthday for Saturday I hope you have a lovely day. The baby is the best gift of all 😍 xxx

[Pookymama]

Love this jess and totally relate. I'm pinching myself all the time at how blessed we finally are... massive congrats on the best anniversary xxx

[Hidden in reply to Pookymama]

Thank you. I’ve just read your post so very happy for you. Congrats on Oliver he’s adorable 😍 my hubby is an Oli. what a big baby too the good thing about bigger sized babies is they are more advanced & tend to feed better midwife told me that. My little girl was 8lbs 14oz at 40+4 & latched perfectly from day 1 whereas my son was only 6lbs 6oz at 39+1 took a few weeks to get the hang of latching. My little girl will be 11 weeks on Wednesday & I still cannot believe we got so lucky sometimes I pinch myself to make sure I’m not dreaming! Enjoy every moment with Oliver xxx

[SunnyDream]

I'm so happy for you! Each of my birthdays ended up with tears and I haven't had any parties for the last few years because of this. I couldn't bear this. I wanted to share this day not only with my hubby and friends but with my baby. I am really really happy for you and hope that my next birthday I will spend my little one!

[Hidden in reply to SunnyDream]

Thank you so much. Anniversaries birthdays & Christmas are so tough on this journey especially when friends & family make it look so easy sigh it’s not 😔 Anyway I really hope you will soon be enjoying all special occasions with a precious baby very soon xxx

[SunnyDream in reply to Hidden]

Thanks, hunnie! I hope too. Meanwhile, I have already looked through the donor database and almost have chosen 5 donors for us. They have so huge base that it took me a week to learn it. And wasn't even able to look through all of them. There are over 500 donors, can you imagine? I have found some girls that are similar to me, so my child could look like me))

[Hidden in reply to SunnyDream]

Oh my gosh where do you start?!!😳 Wishing you every success with it. xxx

[SunnyDream in reply to Hidden]

))))) Yeap, the base is huge. Actually, we have already found several girls that may suit us. They are pretty and kind. I have sent this info to our coordinator so they can check their availability. I really hope it will be soon. How are you today? What have you been doing this weekend?

[Hidden]

I find it nice to see people who have struggled succeed as it gives you hope one day your stars will align and it will be you with the new arrival.

[Hidden in reply to Hidden]

Thank you I hope all is well with you xxx

[Missy_22]

Lovely post. Congratulations xxxx

[Hidden in reply to Missy_22]

Thank you, all the best to you xxx

[Core]

Happy anniversary, so glad you got to enjoy it with your little one xx

[Hidden in reply to Core]

Thank you & good luck with your transfer, I hope your cycle is successful ❤️xxx

[Janop79]

Such a lovely post. Happy Anniversary and huge congratulations xx

[Hidden in reply to Janop79]

Thank you & I hope all is well with you xxx

[Squeak2]

Happy anniversary to you both and it’s a lovely story to share 💕 xx

[Hidden in reply to Squeak2]

Thank you I never imagined myself ever posting a success story! Good for tomorrow I hope you get the good ahead, quality over quantity ❤️ xxx

[Squeak2]

Thank you so much, I’m praying this is my time 💕 xx