Why is af late

[waitingonmiracle]

Hey im new here had my third nhs ivf last month had bfn on 28th aug and af started next day. Ever since iv felt awful headaches,feeling so sick but never actually been sick and cramps on and off will it take af coming to make me feel better its 4 days late the now. Really want to feel better x

[Kat2013]

It's the same for me I'm on day 17 feel so tied some days are better went to gym and washed me out when body says rest rest it's my 3rd NHS as well I've stop feeling sick just a funny tast and smells as well good luck xxx

[waitingonmiracle]

Thanks Kat i just feel miserable and my non sensible side of my brain tries to convince me im pregnant and the test was wrong but i know i dont really believe that or i wouldnt be drinking wine on a weekend,been thinking of going private for a fourth and final try but dont know if we can face it again xx

[Hidden]

Make sure you get a WTF follow-up meeting where you can discuss the outcomes. With 3 rounds, they now have a lot of data and may suggest something different if you want to keep going with the treatment.

xx

[waitingonmiracle in reply to Hidden]

Thanks flowergirl iv got a meeting next month,iv always had good embryos they just dont seem to implant although this is the only time iv made it too otd without af coming,it came the next day. I thought i was doing ok untill i saw this mornig and the couple fell pregnant first time a just fell apart watching them taking the eggs and putting the embryos back. Just wish af would show i feel like iv been pumped up with the boobs lol

[Hidden]

Hey, it's ok to feel sad and jealous when you come across others who have an easier journey to resolution to you. 3 rounds of IVF is A LOT and is going to mess with your body and with your mind - which is the hardest thing.

[waitingonmiracle in reply to Hidden]

yeah i know my hubby has always wanted to be a daddy and went through messa ops 17 year ago with his first wife and when she left him it broke his heart when we got together he explained we would prob never have children and that i had to consider that before i decided on being with him as he couldnt be hurt again. When we eventually decided to go down this route i thought as i was younger i could give him the one thing hes always wanted and iv not been able to it tears me apart to see his face when i tell him iv had af or this time that the test was neg. I feel hopeless and useless and feel like whats the point if i cant have the family we have always wanted,my parents said they would pay for a private treatment but i would feel awful if they spent all that cash and it didnt work again. so sorry for the rant not really been talking about this just kept it to myself this time x

[Hidden]

That's more than fine, there are unfortunately too many people on here who know exactly what you feel - one thing that attracted me to my DH was that I knew how amazing a dad he would be. I wouldn't wish fertility issues on my worst enemy. maybe now's the time to have a few counselling sessions to give you some strength to take things forward.

[waitingonmiracle]

maybe we should think about it flowergirl,thankyou very much for chatting with me it was nice to actually talk to someone about it and not just to myself lol xx

[Kat2013]

Hi I now how you feel the plan for us is to give up no body will ever understand us unless they have they been thought it that feeling is awful you take care let me now how you get xxx