symptoms not constant only 5+4wks …

[Cutecolliedog]

just looking for some reassurance as my symptoms seem to be obvious one day and the next day not? I have had nausea, definitely sensitive to smells etc, sore boobs, very tired.

Just the nausea seems horrible one day and then the next day it’s gone? The is my 4th transfer and unfortunately I’ve miscarried my first 3 so I’m just being overly paranoid I think.

Anyone in similar position having symptoms come/go and not constant and had a good outcome?

My viability scan isn’t till next week 🫣

thanks everyone xx

[Espera]

I had on and off symptoms like you and it drove me crazy! Some days a bit of nausea or indigestion or sore boobs then other days nothing. Now I’m 37 weeks and have a whole heap of symptoms constantly 🤪 Hang in there!! If you can, focus on work or a hobby etc. til you get to that scan (but also be wary that you might still be anxious after that for a while- I think I was until the 20 week scan)

[Cutecolliedog in reply to Espera]

Glad I’m not the only one just makes me worry am I going to miscarry 🙈 congrats on your pregnancy and how exciting you will be meeting your wee one soon xx

[Hidden]

I’ve been the same and now 16 weeks but symptoms do come and go. I won’t tell you not to worry as with your history you will worry constantly. After 3 losses I’m still a nervous wreck! We just have to hang tight and look after ourselves. Good luck for your early scan next week x

[Catwind]

mine are all over the place. I freaked out when my boobs stopped being sore and I felt totally fine then wham two days later could barely keep my eyes open despite 12 hours of sleep, felt mildly nauseous and soreness came back. It’s literally a new story everyday. I am going to be 7 weeks in a few days and the heart attacks I’m giving myself don’t stop.

[Cutecolliedog in reply to Catwind]

This is exactly me! Honestly you are just constantly scrutinising every symptom it’s impossible. Do you have a scan booked soon? I’m 6 wks today 😊

[Catwind in reply to Cutecolliedog]

No scan booked - tbh I was resisting getting any testing done just because I have so much ptsd from my first two miscarriages. I know I may eventually need to get something done but it’s almost as though I’m waiting for something bad to happen. Going to the washroom to pee is becoming an examination of ‘oh is that spot in the toilet bowl blood or the spot that’s been there for years’ 🙄 today I’m almost without symptoms and having mild silent panic attacks.

[Blackmito]

Hi yes I was exactly like this! I'm now 13 weeks pregnant and my nausea came and went and some days I woke up thinking I wasn't pregnant anymore! The part you're at is the longest wait! Wishing you all the best xxx

[Cutecolliedog in reply to Blackmito]

Thanks for messaging! I actually wish either I had them constantly or not at all. I literally feel like time is going so slow as will find out on Thursday if it’s going to be viable or not eek quite scary. Even then got so long to go. Do you find as you get further along you are worrying less or are you still getting extra reassurance scans? xx

[Fruitandflowers]

First pregnancy when the sickness let up even for a couple of hours or I'd wake up not feeling sick, I'd be relieved for about 10 seconds, then worry. I had HCGs done early then reassurance scans and the scans kept me going 2 or 3 weeks before doubt would begin to creep in again. I'd had two prior early losses on transfers and tbh I never really relaxed or stopped assuming the worst (even after the birth!), although when I could feel kicks a bit more regularly that helped. But it doesn't matter now as everything was fine and no harm done by worrying, so don't stress about being stressed, it's understandable that you're worried and second guessing everything x

[Cutecolliedog in reply to Fruitandflowers]

It’s so weird how they seem to come and go the other morning I thought I was going to throw up but then yesterday and today I feel fine 🤷‍♀️ I wish I could turn off the stress/anxiety switch! This is turning out to be the longest wait ever! thanks for your comment xx