Hi ladies, after being told i would be induced at 39 weeks they now want to push this to 37 (next week!). Bubba is fine but small (4-8 centile) and they think there’s a risk with my low papp-a… although blood flow from placenta and fluid have been consistently fine so far.
For some reason, I’ve found this really difficult to come to terms with and i’ve been really down about it. I’m dreading the induction not working and needing to have a c-section which I’m worried will happen cus 37 weeks is still quite early. I don’t know whether it’s because, as an IVF pregnancy, I was hoping to have this portion of the pregnancy be natural and wanted the opportunity to have a midwife-led birth. Every time I express this i’m told to think about the outcome of a healthy baby being the most important thing — which of course esp. post-IVF is all I’ve wanted — but it makes me feel like i’m being selfish or unreasonable for not wanting the early induction and being sad I can’t have the birth I was hoping for. Esp as baby is healthy and there are no known issues other than size.
Either way, I wanted to see if anyone else has had this experience? And was anyone induced early and still manage to have a vaginal birth?
Thanks, sorry for the essay!