My 11yr old son (starting secondary in Sept) is still wet in the day and night. He has been diagnosed with an irritable bladder, and has been on medication for the last two years to try and help but none of them seem to be working.
Oxybutynin improved his symptoms slightly (fewer big accidents, but still general dribbling of wee and max vols of 150ml) but had terrible side effects. Tolterodine was side effect free but only improved his volumes to about 200ml. The latest med we're trying is Solifenacin. We're only a week in so I admit it's early days, but it seems to be having no impact at all, we're back to lower volumes and full on wetting incidents
I'm so demoralised by it all. He's had uroflow and bladder ultrasound, we've tried bladder training, drinking schedules, alarms, vibrating watches, measured water bottles, bottles with special straws, a TENS machine, pant wetting alarms, but it just all feels so futile and he's now in total denial about the problem.
Has anyone had a positive experience with solifenacin over other meds? Or does anyone know what the next line of treatment might be if drugs really don't help?
Thanks so much for any help xx