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I can't deal with this.

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So, I haven't yet been diagnosed but my story is on my page.

It's been another day in bed, throwing up, excruciating pain in my abdomen/back and just losing the will the live.

I feel so lonely right now and I just want someone to talk to about all of this, I want someone to truly understand. I am struggling so much lately and I just need someone that actually can understand what's going on with me.

I sound so sad but I could use a friend.

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chloe3011

Sounds like you've had a really rough day of it, I'm so sorry you feel alone. I feel a similar way, I've had lots of time off work recently and when I return I feel even more isolated. I often try to explain it to my partner, friends and family but they really don't get it. I hope you get all the treatment you need, we have to demand help sometimes :)

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JustSomeGirl_ in reply to chloe3011

I just don't know how to deal with feeling this low. Thank you for replying though, I really appreciate it. I'm the same, no one really understands unless you're going through this. I have my name on the waiting list for a Laparoscopy, that should be soon. Fingers crossed. I hope you're getting the help you need, too.

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Danielle12309

Hi babes.

I get like this very often; feeling very lonely, useless and extremely fed up.

I think a huge side effect of this is mentally as well. It's so mentally draining and something so minor can make me fall into this... where I just feel trapped.

It is so much to take in at any age, I think it's something that you never think is going to happen to you or ever be a problem for you.

But once your cycle of pain is over you with be okay and 'normal' as it can get. Push through it. I tell my self this everyday - although I've cried about it 3 times today alone 🤦🏻‍♀️ everybody has bad and good days. Remember that you are not the only one feeling this way although it way seem like that. On the plus side you are on the waiting list which is more than you had 6 months ago.

Don't beat yourself up. Chin up x

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JustSomeGirl_ in reply to Danielle12309

Thank you so much for the kind words and advice, seeing all these ladies comment really does make you realise that there are so many people that completely understand and they will try and help when and where they can. It means a lot that you ladies have taken the time to message me.

I can only hope we all get the right help and answers we need and so desperately want x

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staceymacg

We all get days like this. I've been feeling incredibly lonely lately and it is awful. It feels like the whole world is against you and that things will never get better but all we can do is push on. We need to keep fighting and we need to keep strong. We are all such incredibly strong women and I'm so proud of you💛 Xx

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JustSomeGirl_ in reply to staceymacg

That's exactly how I'm feeling. I can't work at all right now and that makes getting through all of this so much more stressful and hard. But I have so much good in my life so I will always keep pushing on. It's just getting through the hard days where all you want to do is give up. I'm grateful for the message, it was sweet of you. Thank you ☺️

P.s. I hope you have better days and I'm here if you just want to talk or rant x

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Jordanjennifer

I know it's hard and it sounds like you are really suffering, but don't feel alone. I get this often and feel like no one else understands my pain, how I am feeling and what I am thinking.

I even get to the point where I think I am a burden on my family and my poor loving partner. This is obviously not true and they try everything to help, but this condition leaves me feeling so down.

I always find that support is the best key to this. Even if you are feeling low and down you can come and chat on here to someone who truly will understand.

I'm sure very soon you will have your lap and from there things will become easier due to the docs knowing how to treat you. Things are progressing in the correct direction and you have just got to be strong a little longer.

Drop me a message anytime day or night if you need to. We are all here to help and support each other. X

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JustSomeGirl_ in reply to Jordanjennifer

I feel the same way about my family and partner. It's so hard doing this and it feels worse not knowing.

I'd love to talk at some point as I haven't properly spoken to someone that has Endo yet. I have questions that I just have to know but they can wait. Would it be okay if I messaged you some time this evening?

Thank you, it means a lot that you replied☺️

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Jordanjennifer

You can message me but unfortunately I am at a function this evening. I will reply as quickly as I can to you though. Don't feel like you have to bottle it is the best advice I have. X

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