BACKGROUND (QUESTION BELOW)
I have had heavy periods since they started, to the point it has on and off caused Anemia. They are always painful the first two days. A couple of times I've had light bleeding a day after sex, and initially have pain during sex. I also get bad bloating, a need to urinate all the time, and a bad stomach on my period. My doctors now think it is likely I have Endometriosis. I am seeing a gyno again next month to talk about a lappscopy. I am 24, unemployed, currently working towards a Masters Degree which ends in Septmeber, live with parents, and am single. I have been single for a long time, and see no hope of me finding someone at this point. I want children. I have always wanted children, even when I was one myself. It's the only thing I have ever wanted. I read that the first year after lapscopy is the prime time to get pregnant, but, as I am unfortunate in most areas of life, I do not have a partner, so it's not like I can just start TTC. I am now considering a donor, but I have heard the waiting lists can take two years.
My question is, will being on the pill after the lap stop it from coming back? It's going to take time for me to get a stable job, a donor, and possible further fertility treatment if needed. My parents have also agreed to support me. Can I ask the surgeons not to remove tissue if it's not at a later stage, so it can be removed when I am ready for pregnancy? My doctor has given me no real information on fertility and endo, she just said 'Most of the time the cause of infertility is unknown'.