Dear ladies,
Please excuse me for the mistakes that you might find in my post as the English is my 2nd language.
Here is my story :
In October '14 I finally got some answer for my pain - bilateral endrometriosa . now, how can I control it and prevent it.
I am going to see an oncologist -gynaecologist on 24th of Feb. Till then I am not sure will I have surgery or not. How long will it will last this pain.
Now to the point- work. I live and work in London as a self employer, house cleaner day time and evenings I am studying computer science at evening Uni. Last year before Xmas and just about 2weeks ago I have been literally kicked out of work, because I need only one day to stay at home and be able to drug my self enough so next day I can go to work. I have been told that they can't secure my job because there a plenty other cleaner that can help them. Is it's happen to any of you ? Did you get such an attitude? Yet I am struggling with payments and travel cost cause I can't work when I am in pain. Painkillers they just make me sleepy and supper slow and no one want such a labour. Ladies is there any support that I can get when I am not working, or I just have to bite my pain, and go to work, lie them that I am fine ?? I do live with my mum and she can see every single convulsion when I am in pain but if I don't go to work tomorrow morning I can easily read her face " I am tired too and in pain as well but I am going to work. We have to pay the bills. " Right now I am holding the hottie bottle as since 3:30am this morning I could not stop being in pain. Tried to take a codein and paracetamol but I vomit it. Tried to eat again . Since then have not eat much and only the hot bottle hold down my pain . As soon I take it out ..boom the sticky red blood cells start banging inside my pelvic area, lower back and tummy . Please if you can help me with some more information, or point me in the right direction or simple just to say hi, feel free to do that .
Wish everyone painless evening and night.
Krasi