13 readons why?

[poppet36]

I have watched this show and can really relate with alot of it, some of it is just darft tho. Have you seen it and what did you think as fellow sufferers???

[poppet36]

Meant 13 REASONS WHY......

[mysmugcat]

No I haven't seen it when was it on?

[CJ2016 in reply to mysmugcat]

Netflix

[CJ2016]

I watched it,found it kind of annoying,mainly because the guy kept on avoiding listening to the tapes the show could of probably ended in about three episodes if he just listend to the tapes.

All of that wha wha,why am i on the tapes,wha wha,is it my fault,wha wha,just listen to the tapes and you will knowww, but other then that, was a pretty decent series about a topic that is not disccused openly enough even in this day and age.

It could also trigger people though,especially if you self harm,apparentlly some people think it will cause more harm then good,due to people thinking that the show glorifies(maybe not the word i am looking for) suicide.

[Hidden in reply to CJ2016]

Hi CJ. Sorry but could you amend your reply please and take out the f......g word as I find it upsetting and obscene. Thank you.

[Hidden]

I thought it was really boring and dumb. Also, it was triggering for me. The part where she slashes her wrists just made me feel at ease. No good.

[CJ2016 in reply to Hidden]

I found after watching her slash her wrists, just give me the urge to cut

[Hidden in reply to CJ2016]

Yes, exactly! I felt the same. I haven't done that in a long time, so it was very surreal to have that urge again.

[CJ2016 in reply to Hidden]

I still cut so maybe it was not the best idea to watch it but was kind of addicting in that I couldn't help but keep watching.

[Bulliedinlife1981 in reply to CJ2016]

Why do you cut ?

[CJ2016 in reply to Bulliedinlife1981]

Why do I cut? various reasons,I hate my self(my body) sometimes I feel like I deserve it, to keep my mind occupied on something other then life.

And to a degree it's addicting,I have been addicted to the gym,sex,food and now to some extent this.

And from my understanding all of those things have one thing in common,they all release endorphins.

[Bulliedinlife1981 in reply to CJ2016]

I understand that I use to cut , for me it was to help me see that what ever pain I was feeling was actually an emotional pain and the pain when I cut was much more real , I hope you get better with that

[CJ2016 in reply to Bulliedinlife1981]

Thanks,and yeah one day(granted have been saying that for like the last year)something will change.(also granted it's only me that can make that happen)

[Hidden in reply to CJ2016]

Aw no, im really sorry that you are still struggling with cutting 😞 I know how hard it is to quit. I hope that you can find the will power to stop soon 💜 Its not a good idea to watch things with self harm, it usually will have a bad effect. It happens tho. I'm sending you hugs ☺

[Bulliedinlife1981 in reply to Hidden]

Why did you cut ?

[poppet36 in reply to CJ2016]

Me to