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Free-styling into 2024

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I went a bit rogue/off C25K schedule for New Years Day. My son is 13 years old, and it can be really hard work levering him away from the screens. He has chosen running as his DofE physical activity, which is great. Less great is the amount of chivvying required to get him out the door. While I am on week 6, he is just finishing week 2. I might not run like a gazelle, but he is tortoise-slow in motivation. After some efforts to get him going this morning I put down tools and said if he didn’t want to do the DofE, fine - I quit. 20 minutes later, after quietly charging his (my old) Garmin and reinstalling the App, he suggested we go for a run. So… even though it was a rest day, in the name of parental love I found myself lacing up the shoes (after my son gave them back to me - we are the same size for, I sincerely hope, a very short time), and heading out the door for a ‘freestyle’ run on a route of his choice.

He said he’d go at my pace, and thought he could do 20 minutes. We agreed no headphones, we’d chat instead. My son suggesting we leave the tech behind! and talk! We did our 5 minute walk, and then broke into a very slow jog. We managed to make conversation until we hit a hill, then it was head down for a bit. At the 5 minute mark he decided he would switch to walking again… I kept jogging in little loops… and so it continued, him jogging/walking in 5 minute intervals, and me… keeping going… for 26 minutes, when he asked me to stop.

Walking back, we reflected on our progress. In 6 weeks, there was a real contrast in our ability to keep going. He said he thought he’d stick to the C25K plan going forward, rather than make up his own routines. I dampened down my inward cheer and said that seemed a sensible plan.

We will see… happy new year peeps 🙂

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love this! Welcome back. I’ve been unable to run much due to injury so I’ve been going to the gym with my boy instead. Today we did a little run together on the treadmills and on the way home he said he’d like to try running outside next time I go….. I am not sure how it is going to work as I am little and old and VERY slow but I can keep going for a fair old while if I need to, he is just over 6ft tall now so can probably walk faster than I run!!

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ktsokGraduate in reply toE27M14

Em! You are here! Ah, so good to see you. I’m sorry to hear you have been injured… sounds like you are on the treadmill to recovery? And not so much of the little and old please! You are an inspirational woman and mother.

Look at us, running with our boys. 😍

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E27M14Graduate in reply toktsok

haha, I’m a grandmother now! I had a bit of an emotional crisis over turning 50 but I’m still running, just a bit slower 😂

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ktsokGraduate in reply toE27M14

You did start young…

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MummycavAdministratorGraduate

this is lovely…

1. Getting them off their games is like pulling teeth so well done you for that!!!

2. Parental love ❤️

3. NO TECH!!! just chatting…perfect…

4. He’s doing DofE

5. Hurrah for c25k!!

What a team you are xx

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ktsokGraduate

It was one of the good moments 😊

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MummycavAdministratorGraduate in reply toktsok

Warms my heart x

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SueAppleRunGraduate

Good to see enthusiasm and running with a son is great 😃

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ktsokGraduate in reply toSueAppleRun

That sounds like something you have done too?

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KatnapGraduate

Having a plan to schedule your runs helps with the motivation. If he can maintain it after graduating it will make the next DofE easier 😃👍

And HNY!

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ktsokGraduate in reply toKatnap

This one has to discover it for himself… hopefully, the penny has dropped 🙃

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OldflossAdministratorGraduate

Well done you... a slight, wonderful detour with sone and you... and now back on track! x

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ktsokGraduate in reply toOldfloss

It was very pleasing, Floss.

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GoogleMeGraduate

Bravo! I have two offspring who would benefit greatly for very different reasons. One won't start (although TBF when at home his daily walk is religious), the other is very haphazard.

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ktsokGraduate

You can lead a horse to water… 🙃

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Jell6Graduate

Late reply, that's sounds like a lovely run, and I doubt he'll be a tortoise for long so make the most of it! Side note, why do I not get notifications 🤷🏻‍♀️

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ktsokGraduate in reply toJell6

I don’t get notifications either. I have to stalk you via profile/connections/following/Jell/posts!

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MissUnderstandingAdministratorOn a breakGraduate in reply toJell6

Which notifications are you missing? They’re often a bit hit and miss. You could try updating your account settings. I’m on my mobile and didn’t find them at all easy to find. The way I did it was to open up my profile, click “edit” next to user info, then scroll to the bottom to find a message saying the account settings have moved with a link. Follow the link, then see a message that the email notifications section has also moved with a link to the new section. Follow that link and you can select what you’d like to receive email notifications about. Then congratulate yourself for all that effort!

I’ll investigate to try and find if there’s a direct link!

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ktsokGraduate in reply toMissUnderstanding

Great instructions, thank you 🙏 . I followed the multiple links and have updated 🙂

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MissUnderstandingAdministratorOn a breakGraduate in reply toktsok

Fantastic! Hopefully your inbox will be full of notifications! Glad to be of service 🙂

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CBDBGraduate

woohoo!!!

I have just given as a Xmas present the second Virtual Lord of The Ring Conqueror challenge to my son, who started running during my 3rd year of running. Not as regularly as I do, but he does get a run in per week or two or so. Just simply having someone else regularly getting out there for a run motivated him to do the same.

So he finished his first virtual running challenge of 145 miles last year and is up for the next stage!

Happy running, you two!

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ktsokGraduate in reply toCBDB

That’s amazing! What a brilliant gift you have given your son (most importantly, the inspiration). That must feel great 😊

It’s early days here… we shall see… I just googled at the ‘Shire to Mordor’ challenge - looks epic!

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