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At work...

Friend... how’s the running going?

Me.... oh it’s great thank you I’m loving it, ran this morning and the water off the lake was beautiful

Friend... ah well Jan, if you’ve got time to admire the view you’re not pushing yourself hard enough

Me... 😬

Inner me... 🤬

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GoogleMe profile image
GoogleMeGraduate

An eye roll.

Fatgirlslim19 profile image
Fatgirlslim19Graduate

Hah!

Vintage61 profile image
Vintage61Graduate in reply toFatgirlslim19

Indeed 😶

Fatgirlslim19 profile image
Fatgirlslim19Graduate in reply toVintage61

Sounds a bit like she's jealous of your running. She may well be super competitive but maybe she doesn't actually enjoy running like you do.

It's definitely her issue. X

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Stephen_UKGraduate

What nonsense. Just ignore it. Admiring the view is one of the best things about running and it helps you concentrate.

Vintage61 profile image
Vintage61Graduate in reply toStephen_UK

I think so, I’m so enjoying the whole experience

Bazza1234 profile image
Bazza1234Graduate

They obviously know what they are talking about - so ask them when they can come out for a run with you to show you how it should be done !! :)

Vintage61 profile image
Vintage61Graduate in reply toBazza1234

She’s much faster than me but hugely competitive so that’s the difference I guess

grumpyoldgirl profile image
grumpyoldgirlGraduate

Does she think it's meant go whizzing by in a blur? Are you meant to be running at warp speed like the starship enterprise? Or running with your eyes shut perhaps! No it's probably just as well you didn't say any of that, although you could invite her to run with you next time 😁

Vintage61 profile image
Vintage61Graduate in reply togrumpyoldgirl

Nah, I’m good, slow and sexy pace and building up gradually whilst being in the moment suits me 👍🏻

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backintimeGraduate in reply toVintage61

There are situations in life where slow is so much better than fast (and no, get your mind out of the gutter, I'm not just thinking about that!!)

Taking the time to do something safely and without injury is a good thing. If you can enjoy the scenery along the way, all the better!

Ask her if she drove at 70mph when she was starting to drive *eye rolling smiley*

Fatgirlslim19 profile image
Fatgirlslim19Graduate in reply tobackintime

😆 my mind was instantly in the gutter!

backintime profile image
backintimeGraduate in reply toFatgirlslim19

hahahaha

RunRunRun13 profile image
RunRunRun13Graduate in reply toFatgirlslim19

Me too 🤣

Slothgoesrunning profile image
SlothgoesrunningGraduate

What! Careless ‘banter’ maybe but you know the changes running has made for you and you should be proud- don’t let it get to you 🤗

Vintage61 profile image
Vintage61Graduate in reply toSlothgoesrunning

Thx, just a bit disappointed. She knows me well so should appreciate how massive this change is for me, hey ho ..

ButtercupKid profile image
ButtercupKidGraduate

Refer to King Solomon: “The race is not to the swift, nor the battle to the strong . . .” 😄

Vintage61 profile image
Vintage61Graduate in reply toButtercupKid

I is not swift but I is appreciative....

ButtercupKid profile image
ButtercupKidGraduate in reply toVintage61

There’s always the hare and the tortoise too 😂

backintime profile image
backintimeGraduate

.... off?

Vintage61 profile image
Vintage61Graduate in reply tobackintime

Oh yeah! 😂

GoGo_JoJo profile image
GoGo_JoJoGraduate

🤣🤣🤣🤣

Stick your tongue out!!

I don't get asked much in the first place, but when I do I tailor my answer to the individual, from just "great thanks" to more enthusiastic answers for those I know will really care 😉👍🏻

Vintage61 profile image
Vintage61Graduate in reply toGoGo_JoJo

I thought she did, but you live and learn. Bless her

Run46 profile image
Run46Graduate

Wow...just wow! 😳

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Vintage61Graduate in reply toRun46

Indeed 😐

Julia187 profile image
Julia187Graduate

Excuse my language but WTF?

Vintage61 profile image
Vintage61Graduate in reply toJulia187

Hah, that was going to be my headline!!! 😂😂😂

UnfitNoMore profile image
UnfitNoMoreGraduate

I love the misconception that running has to be full on intensity and pace... we can have people out there believing this for our amusement, but if they do start running we need to educate them before they injure themselves.

Vintage61 profile image
Vintage61Graduate in reply toUnfitNoMore

We all have our place don’t we and that ok 👌

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Jell6Graduate

I'd go along with the, "yes it was great, why don't you come with me" responses.

Someone I work with (who doesn't even use the stairs) once asked how far I ran, I replied "generally 5k." "Oh, only 5k?" was her reply.

Amazing 😶😶😶

Buddy34 profile image
Buddy34Graduate in reply toJell6

Sounds like she couldn't do 5 steps never mind 5k. Such negative people . Good job we are all positive on here 😂😂

You could always take her with you and throw her in the lake

Vintage61 profile image
Vintage61Graduate in reply toBuddy34

Oh she’s a runner but massively into a task being completed rather than the experience

Debston profile image
DebstonGraduate in reply toJell6

😂 That's really tickled me! People are so weird sometimes!

Vintage61 profile image
Vintage61Graduate in reply toDebston

That’s a word ...

Vintage61 profile image
Vintage61Graduate in reply toJell6

Yup. That’s why I love the support on here, I don’t want a medal just for people to understand how chuffed I am about the achievement and what it means

Vintage61 profile image
Vintage61Graduate in reply toJell6

Well I think I’m amazing 😉

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JazzyrunnerGraduate

🙄🙄🙄 Each to their own, I suppose - even if that’s not their attitude! 😂

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Vintage61Graduate in reply toJazzyrunner

👍🏻yup

Rogie55 profile image
Rogie55Graduate

Surprising how many others ( non runners) like to give a critiques. Grr get of your bum and run.

Vintage61 profile image
Vintage61Graduate in reply toRogie55

🤷‍♀️

Thecko profile image
TheckoGraduate

Another common one is the response of "Oh I hate running"

Often tempted to say "why the hell did you ask me about it then?"

Vintage61 profile image
Vintage61Graduate in reply toThecko

😂

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Zebadee1Graduate in reply toThecko

I'm afraid the 'I hate running ' person used to be me ......not any more 😀

Buddy34 profile image
Buddy34Graduate

People are so jealous aren't they . You enjoyed your run and took in the views . Both can be done at the same time 😊😊

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Vintage61Graduate in reply toBuddy34

I did and I do. 10 weeks ago if you’d said... Jan you’re gonna get up at 5 and run 5k before work I would have laughed like a loon!

Debston profile image
DebstonGraduate

😂 Next time she asks how the running is going, just say very seriously, "Not sure to be honest, I took your advice and pushed myself harder but it's all such a blur now that I have no idea where I've run to or how far. I think I ought to slow down a bit because it feels a bit dangerous going so fast!" And look a bit worried! 😂

Vintage61 profile image
Vintage61Graduate in reply toDebston

Maybe need to try that 😂

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OldgirlrunsGraduate

😂

Comfortnotspeed profile image
Comfortnotspeed

I’m raising my eyebrow in sympathy 🤨

Vintage61 profile image
Vintage61Graduate in reply toComfortnotspeed

🤨

NewRunner4 profile image
NewRunner4Graduate

Wow, that’s an impressive de-motivation if ever I’ve heard one.

I don’t suppose any of us here are trying to become Olympic athletes, just ordinary people trying to improve fitness, mental health, get outdoors etc etc and most of all ENJOY it. 👍

Vintage61 profile image
Vintage61Graduate in reply toNewRunner4

I’m flippin LOVING it 💕

Tasha99 profile image
Tasha99Graduate

How rude! I bet you enjoy your runs more than she does.

Vintage61 profile image
Vintage61Graduate in reply toTasha99

Quite possibly

Couchpotato2 profile image
Couchpotato2Graduate

I've been told that if I sing along then I am not pushing hard enough. ENOUGH WITH THIS RUNNING DICTATORSHIP. I and I suspect you, run and enjoy it. It's got the same benefits plus more so there.

Vintage61 profile image
Vintage61Graduate in reply toCouchpotato2

👍🏻

RunRunRun13 profile image
RunRunRun13Graduate

Ha ! They need to come out with me....I have snails that pass me ! 🐌🏃‍♀️ #dontgivea🐌

Vintage61 profile image
Vintage61Graduate in reply toRunRunRun13

😂

Cosmo501 profile image
Cosmo501Graduate

Just... WOW!!!.. Some people!! ... She doesn't sound much of a fun colleague..

LOVE the replies you have here. Thank-goodness for like-minded souls :-)

Vintage61 profile image
Vintage61Graduate in reply toCosmo501

I know, you lovely people on this forum are freakin’ adorable 😍😍😍

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Zebadee1Graduate

I don't pay any attention to people like this. ....there's always going to be someone faster, slower, with more or less energy, who can run further or not at all, but who will always have an opinion. ...I think it's all about our individual journeys and what we are happy with. If they can't be happy for us , they can so* off 😀

Vintage61 profile image
Vintage61Graduate in reply toZebadee1

Yep. I’m not fretting about it, just thought sometimes you can’t win

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Zebadee1Graduate in reply toVintage61

I had a feeling you didn't....

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RunningChocoholicGraduate

What an odd comment? I hope she got a two finger salute as well. Ive said it loads but I would rather be a happy plodder and enjoy the surroundings than push myself, absolutely hate it and collapse at the end needing a paramedic. Keep going at your happy pace, you’re doing fab.

Ps

I’m sure Old Floss has some wise words for your colleague x

Vintage61 profile image
Vintage61Graduate in reply toRunningChocoholic

Totally did! 👌

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OldflossAdministratorGraduate

Your friend would loathe me and my runs then.... Sometimes, what I see and then ramble about takes longer than the run!!!

"A snail sees the benefits... the beauty in ever inch " :)

Go you !!!

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WhatsappGraduate

On the contrary, if you don't have time to admire the view, you are pushing yourself too hard!

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