Worried and confused

[shezza15]

Iv been treating myself for ibs for years now using diarys to rite down my food intake but nothing i did semed to help now the drs say i have IBD and im in need of further investigation, most bowel complaints iv read about so far haveshown most things turn to cancer, should i be worrying , i get abdominal pain alot especialy after food, very bloated tummy with sharp pains in both my tummy and bottom, sex is uncomfortable and is putting presure on my marriage, im constipated all the time and have the feeling to go the loo put cannot, i get headaches and a funny dry taste in my mouth, iv been told all these symptoms ate down to having IBD, has anyone out thete had any simular symptoms and is there anyone with any advice please.